[JadeAmethyst]

I'm not sure what to even write. My adult son is getting out of prison tomorrow. My husband and I have chosen to give him room and board for a period so he is able to finish his probation period. This is concerning me a great deal today. My husband tells me i'm a"strong" woman, it sure doesn't feel that way inside though.

Not asking for pity, or sympathy, just a place to park these thoughts for now.

thanks for listening.

warm regards
Jade

[Little Lulu]

I would feel shaky also if my child were coming to live with me just out of prison. Maybe you are strong but you are human, also. When I know I am going to confronted with a difficult situation I do just what you are doing ... call in my supports. Friends, family, counselor, husband ... whoever can help me get through but be reasonable and honest.

One thing I learned a long time ago was that we always have options. Always. If it doesn't work out with you son, you have the right to find another arrangement.

Don't forget that you might actually enjoy his company and your time together - I tend to lose track of the positive when I am fearful.

[JadeAmethyst]

Thanks, this is sound confirmation of intuition. Yes, when I am afraid, I do tend toward worst case scenario.

We picked my son up this a.m., when he came walking out to meet me, it was a genuine greeting. We have spent the day, spending time interacting and getting to know each other as a family....so far that's the miracle of the day.

Thank you for the encouragement, my friends here have been a new resource for me, and in turn I can help by example.

[kaliope]

Remember. You have Psych Central to turn to as a resource to plant all your fears and concerns.

Hope all turns out well with your son.

[JadeAmethyst]

We are pulling together to let him know he matters, and that he's not alone, supporting him and loving him and that's a welcome home that seems to matter the most at this point. He looks pretty healthy on the outside....