[kala83]

so on a level of screwed up this ranks pretty high to me personally. I have two ex friends, that I hung out with for a year.

not only did I hang out with these people but I was intimate with them both (female and male) for a year also.

well I dumped them to the side when I started realizing I was being used and quite literally emotinally and physically abused by these two.

they thought pushing me around and making me feel lowly to them to them was totally ok.
they pretty much tried to mold me into not the person I am but the person they wished for me to be.

and as a lover or as a friend that's just screwed up in general.

so basically what happened is this, I have blocked and un added them fb for obvious good reason. But I have not been keeping up to date with what all is going on with them. Well cause I just don't care!

On monday of this week my boyfriend had the day off from work and I did not have to go into work until later that day.

So I hung out with him until I had to go in, we went into a local wendy's and got some lunch while I was in line i noticed the girl at the register looked familar but I could not tell why. Then I noticed the other girl and it was my friend I tried to stay still and be calm and not make a big deal of things....she steps off to the back of for a second and then i notice the guy friend I knew...who used me, (in much more physical ways then she did hurtfully and sexually steped out from the back) muttering something fairly rude and hurtful under his breath.

Keep in mind I am being quiet as a church mouse at this point and not trying to start anything when anyone but these two are obviously having a cow over the fact I am in this store merly wanting to eat food. And both of these people have been incredibly rude in the past to both me and my boyfriend.

invading mine and his privacy when they had no real right to at all.

I tell my boyfriend in private I am having a panic attack and want to leave. he tries to ask me what is going on and whats up.

I avadily tell him I tell him what is going on when we go out to the car away from where people can hear us. Cause I did not want them to over hear me say their names and assume things.

soo the day moves on and we go about with things in our lives. i go into work the next day...and i have a pretty good day. I like where I work, I enjoy the music we play and I am usually in a really good mood.

Well a few hours in I notice that the girl comes in and she walks right up to me. Cause I was assigned register for the day. I polietly ask her what she wants like I would to any costumer. Which she is.

She does not order any food she just asks for a job application and spends a good hour possibly more in the restaurant.

Now when I run register I am supposed to clean the lobby and and monitor the trash cans. But due to the fact she was there...I was horrified to go out into the lobby and I found myself avoiding my work.
I kept trying to tell my manager I needed to speak to him.....and my mind of course was racing. 'what if they hire her...I can not work in the same place as her she will try to stir up crap with me, I don't want to lose my job". My mind is racing really quickly and I am genuinely starting to freak out.

I am stumbling over my words. and apologizing to people that walk up to me at the register. Who can tell something is up with me cause I am having to ask them to repeat things back to me possibly a little too much for my own liking.
lol oh and then i see the guy come in as well.....and do the same thing she did...

I did finally get the chance to talk to both of my managers explain what a horrible history I had with these two and how I did not want to work near them, saying as politely as I could that it would effect how I worked..and how effectively I did.

even though through the entire thing my breathing rate went up and my hands started shacking horribly from all the stress i was under.

I am trying to tell myself I handled the situation as best I could have.

and that I should be proud of myself for how i handled it, which was differently then they did....

and how i told my managers the truth about how i felt.

I know they were trying to intimidate me....I know they were trying to emotionally abuse me like they have in the past and I hate the fact they still can have this effect on me tub to to me it feels like I have good reason.

From what you've said I can see why you're upset over the whole thing.

You blocked and removed them off fb...so clearly you want nothing to do with them...yet they've still gone out of their way to be this obnoxious...Wow, some people really don't have anything better to do

It's good that you spoke to your managers Now that they know the situation you're that much more likely to have their understanding and support. Try to focus on that more than that last bit there; a difficult thing to do but remember the fact that you spoke to them and telling your boyfriend what is going on puts things in your favor. So along with your managers' support you'll have his too.

[Shriveled Muse]

You should be proud of how you handled it! Sounds like you pulled through very well despite the considerable distress you were going through. Hopefully it turns out well for you, especially since you've notified your managers of the situation~