[worriedinhouston]

I am finally in a loving relationship with a man I can see myself having a future with but when he does something sweet and nice I find myself thinking about all of his bad qualities. This leads me to think about completely irrational thoughts such as if I think bad thoughts about him that God will take him away from me. I find myself repeating over and over again "Please do not take him away from me" . These fears that God will take him away from me is keeping me from sleeping at night and doing my work. Any advise?

[faeyt]

Perhaps try talking to him? By letting him know how you feel he might be able to say something to assure you that everything will be okay. Sometimes it's not what's said, but who says it, that can have the best effect on us. It might also depend on the bad thoughts - sometimes it's okay, our mind does tend to wander, but if those thoughts itself make you uncomfortable you might want to talk to someone professionally about it if you aren't sure where to go.