 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Dec 09, 2016, 09:52 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I made plans to go on a date with a guy and my nerves are getting to me. I don't know if it's predate jitters or social anxiety in general, but the butterflies in my stomach won't stop. I just want to feel like I did when we were just talking and not planning on meeting each other in person. I felt warm and fuzzy and maybe blushed a bit, but now all I feel are those darn butterflies. I just want some confidence is all.
__________________
 MY BLOG IS NOW CONVENIENTLY LOCATED HERE!! [UPDATED: 4/30/2017] LIFE IS TOO SHORT, TOO VALUABLE AND TOO PRECIOUS A THING TO WASTE!! |
 Anonymous48850
|
|
#2
Dec 09, 2016, 10:15 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Just keep it in perspective that it's just meeting for the first time. Try not to let your fantasies go beyond that so you don't set yourself up for disappointment.
You've been texting with him, so you probably know some things you have in common. So that'll help with conversation.
__________________
"And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
|
#3
Dec 10, 2016, 12:27 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Sometimes, social anxiety is a mix of performance anxiety and excitement. It's not necessarily all bad.
|
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
