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Old Mar 05, 2017, 06:52 AM
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I'm seeing someone tomorrow to discuss my employment options.

I'm feeling really nervous about this meeting. I just always get nervous when I have to deal with people! I'm scared of being seen.. What if they don't like or even laugh at what I've thought I want to do in my life? Well, then I can get a 'second opinion'..

I also always just worry about people.. What if they're nasty! But then I can leave.. See someone else and maybe even make a complaint about the first person.

I also feel it's important I go to these meetings despite being nervous, so that if everything goes well I can 'gather' those good experiences to maybe become less nervous and scared in the future..

Pheew.. I feel I just need to share my nervousness to take the edge off it. Thanks for putting up with me!
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Old Mar 05, 2017, 08:18 AM
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I know just how you feel! It's so scary meeting new people. I had to go for and interview to meet a new roommate and I was so nervous!

But I let her know how I felt and she mentioned she was too, and after that everything just became more genuine. 😊.

I tend to trust those who are shy and anxious more because it means they actually care about how the Other person feels. They want to make a good impression. It's a good thing, in a way. But it can feel horrible going through the emotions themselves.

Godspeed on your interview! 💜💙💚.
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Old Mar 05, 2017, 02:10 PM
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I'm seeing someone tomorrow to discuss my employment options.


I also feel it's important I go to these meetings despite being nervous, so that if everything goes well I can 'gather' those good experiences to maybe become less nervous and scared in the future..

Pheew.. I feel I just need to share my nervousness to take the edge off it. Thanks for putting up with me!
I know exactly how you feel and I think your attitude will carry you a long way. Going to those interviews will hopefully make you more comfortable with time. I wish you all the best.
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