[brokenandalone1234]

My fiance has been wanting to lose weight to get healthy. He has two uncles one uncle had a massive stroke and the other a massive heart attack last year. His dad also died 3 almost 4 years ago from completely carinal failure meaning his brain failed. This was due to a massive stroke he had long ago. My problem is I am insecure in the way I look purposely try to miss up his diet and him going out for a walk. I have a love hate relationship

It is good that you recognize that you are sabotaging your fiance's efforts. Why not join him in healthy eating and going out for walks instead? It could be a way for you two to get closer. At the very least, don't try to mess up his attempts at living a healthy lifestyle. It's not fair to him.

[Sunflower123]

Originally Posted by scaredandconfused

It is good that you recognize that you are sabotaging your fiance's efforts. Why not join him in healthy eating and going out for walks instead? It could be a way for you two to get closer. At the very least, don't try to mess up his attempts at living a healthy lifestyle. It's not fair to him.

I agree. He is facing a very real potential health threat that could kill him. I'm glad he's taking appropriate steps to stave it off. If you did as scaredandconfused suggested you could be proud of you and him both. Good luck and best wishes.

[brokenandalone1234]

You are right it is not fair to him but my biggest fear is if he gets healthy that he will leave me for someone a lot prettier, smarter, and who makes more money. He is already a good looking guy and girls hit on him all the time. I am worried if he gets healthy it will get worse. I don't walk with him because I have a bad ankle and it hurts most of the time.