WALKED ALL OVER
ALL MY LIFE
LOVED MY KIDS
HUSBAND AGGRESSIVE, UNLOVING
I STUCK UP FOR MY HUBBY ALL WEEKEND BECAUSE HE UPSET MY DAUGHTER
SHE THINKS HE HATES HER
I'M THE ONE WHO HAS ALWAYS LOVED THEM AND HUGGED THEM
HUBBY SEES HIS MISTAKE FROM THE WEEKEND AND TREATS MY DAUGHTER TO THE MOVIES
THEY RIP ME TO SHREDS
HURT
BETRAYED
WAS DOING WELL
NOW I FEEL LIKE I DONT WANT TO BE HERE AT ALL

WHAT THE HELL DID I EVER DO THAT IS SO BAD

JIN

[dragonphoto]

(((((Jinn))))) I am so sorry I know you really need hugs right now so I am sending some. Love ya
chad

[sabby]

(((((((((((((((( jinny )))))))))))))))))

Remember to breathe hon.....deeply and slowly.

So sorry you are having a rough time. I hope it passes quickly.

Can I remind you of something my dear friend?? We can't (and shouldn't try to) always fix everything. Sometimes they need to work on it themselves. I know you want the family to be loving and calm, but ya know what, it's not always like that. Sometimes fathers and daughters need to work through their own issues. I know it's hard to sit back and not try to fix things, but take it from someone who thought they had to fix everything....it will suck the life out of you! What you can do is take a "middle of the road" approach. You can be sympathetic to both sides...and...you can ask each one, what do they think they can do to help fix their issues. Let them come up with their own ideas. I think you will be surprised that they will find a way to work through things.

Take care my friend.....Love & Hugs to you and the family!

xoxoxoxo
sabby