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Old Feb 20, 2018, 02:27 PM
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I have been having sever anxiety a lot I have been maid fun of cussed out. I am mad and angry because people are being rude to me. I don't know how to deal with it. I called my counselor last weekend she talk to me for a while.
I was called uglee and I am not uglee.
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Old Feb 20, 2018, 07:14 PM
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I read another of your posts where you wrote this is happening at work. If that is the case, this is really workplace abuse. You would certainly be well within your rights to report this to your employer & demand they put a stop to it.

Here's a link to an article from PsychCentral's archives on how to respond to rude or inappropriate remarks. Perhaps something in this article will be of some help:

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...riate-remarks/

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Old Feb 20, 2018, 07:57 PM
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I just want friend and between joey and cody is hard. They keep getting on joey and cody. I have special needs. I just want friends.
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Old Feb 21, 2018, 01:26 PM
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I have been having sever anxiety a lot I have been maid fun of cussed out. I am mad and angry because people are being rude to me. I don't know how to deal with it. I called my counselor last weekend she talk to me for a while.
I was called uglee and I am not uglee.
I know what everyone says - "just ignore it!" but as someone who has also been made fun of and teased, I know that doesn't really help.
Going to a place like school or work where you KNOW someone is going to tease you causes tons of anxiety. Its like walking into a bear den. So here's my advice: Along with the physical alleviations (deep breaths, fidgeting), try your best to focus on the good parts. This can be really hard, but when you notice little things that are good in a place thats bad, it can really begin to help. Did you see a dog on your way to work? Did your friend send you a nice morning message? Did you hear a song you like in a public place?
Its not a cure-all. It won't make your anxiety go away. But it can help you make it through the day, until you can get to a place where you are safer, and you don't have to be nervous or worried or angry.
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Old Feb 21, 2018, 02:00 PM
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I just want friend and between joey and cody is hard. They keep getting on joey and cody. I have special needs. I just want friends.
Country,
May I ask, so that we can help you better. Who are Joey and Cody? And what kind of special needs do you have.
Please note that we all need friends, so you are not alone in desire.
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