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Old Apr 02, 2018, 08:06 AM
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I don’t have faith in my friends, I don’t have faith in my family members

I’m clingy and needy, I overanalyse every word I say and every thing people say to me

I’m always looking for reassurance and this puts people off, makes it worse

I’ve lost good friends because of this “neediness”

I have somewhat recovered from this but the damage has already been done. I am hoping time can heal wounds and they see that I’ve changed but I don’t know for sure

All this uncertainty, coupled with my anxiety and mistakes I’ve made in the past

I just want to isolate myself and not get close to anyone, but what is going to happen to me I’m not sure

I had an argument with a coworker and they want nothing to do with me. I was having an anxiety episode and I kinda became needy that one time

I’m in a mess, I need to be patient and work on my anxiety before I can deal with friendships and stuff
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Old Apr 02, 2018, 11:56 AM
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Friendships will help your anxiety. Do not isolate yourself or you will compound your problems. Don’t act desperate, either. Remember to be a friend to others and ask for nothing in return, you won’t get disappointed and you build a foundation for future growth.
Thanks for this!
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Old Apr 02, 2018, 12:37 PM
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Friendships will help your anxiety. Do not isolate yourself or you will compound your problems. Don’t act desperate, either. Remember to be a friend to others and ask for nothing in return, you won’t get disappointed and you build a foundation for future growth.
Thank you

I’m trying to be that way now, but I’ve done mistakes in the past

I hope time can heal things and past friends can see that I’m not desperate anymore

That would mean a lot
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Old Apr 04, 2018, 07:29 PM
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Thank you for sharing. Your anxiety has certainly helped me understand my own anxiety.
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Old Apr 06, 2018, 01:12 AM
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Sounds like you have one leg over the saddle. Now finish getting on your horse and ride. People will notice the change in you and be happy for you.
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Old Apr 06, 2018, 02:25 AM
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Thank you for sharing. Your anxiety has certainly helped me understand my own anxiety.
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