[cryingontheinside]

I don't go out. Only place I've been to in the past month is the local shop and i hated it so much it was unbearable. Nobody can help me . i don't know what to do

[xmascarol]

Originally Posted by cryingontheinside

I don't go out. Only place I've been to in the past month is the local shop and i hated it so much it was unbearable. Nobody can help me . i don't know what to do

I feel just like you I have a hard time when it comes to going to my doctors,they dont like me to much because I have told then off,They say they understand that I cannot go out but clearly they dont.Do you have someone who could go with you? I mean with me sometimes if my son takes me I feel somewhat better but that is when I cant get him to take me,.Going out is such a task for us.I often wonder if it stems from something from when we were kids.Even when I was younger I was afraid to go out,have that feeling as if someone is watching me.Never could get comfortable.

[cryingontheinside]

Originally Posted by xmascarol

I feel just like you I have a hard time when it comes to going to my doctors,they dont like me to much because I have told then off,They say they understand that I cannot go out but clearly they dont.Do you have someone who could go with you? I mean with me sometimes if my son takes me I feel somewhat better but that is when I cant get him to take me,.Going out is such a task for us.I often wonder if it stems from something from when we were kids.Even when I was younger I was afraid to go out,have that feeling as if someone is watching me.Never could get comfortable.

When i was a teenager i used to constantly cross the road just to avoid people . i sent you a private message the other day . i don't know if you got it . yes if i really have to go somewhere my dad takes me but i find it so hard and get so much anxiety

[xmascarol]

Originally Posted by cryingontheinside

When i was a teenager i used to constantly cross the road just to avoid people . i sent you a private message the other day . i don't know if you got it . yes if i really have to go somewhere my dad takes me but i find it so hard and get so much anxiety

I think we were born with anxieties and fears.I didnt see any messages I will check .thanks

[MickeyCheeky]

I'm so sorry you're struggling, cryingontheinside Yes, agoraphobia must be really hard to deal with, I imagine. I'm so sorry. Please don't give up. We're here for you if you need us. I'm here if you want to talk. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this

[captaineo]

I am very sorry to hear that I wish I was there to help you or find you some magic solution to this that will make it all go away and you can get back on feet, but I have been there also shutting my self in a closet with my kids knocking asking me to get out, and I could not. I know the feeling and is hard for me to share this, but I am here still trying everyday in an environment which is not my own, in a world ever so divided by so trivial matters and I am hurting, I wonder if I will ever know peace. On a positive note I wanted to recommend you to listen to Louise Hay she is a hero of mine and I listen to her on YouTube and audiobooks, is not only her experiences, faith, but her voice is also soothing, try it a few days and may be it can be one step. Hope that helps, big hugs,kisses.

[cryingontheinside]

Originally Posted by captaineo

I am very sorry to hear that I wish I was there to help you or find you some magic solution to this that will make it all go away and you can get back on feet, but I have been there also shutting my self in a closet with my kids knocking asking me to get out, and I could not. I know the feeling and is hard for me to share this, but I am here still trying everyday in an environment which is not my own, in a world ever so divided by so trivial matters and I am hurting, I wonder if I will ever know peace. On a positive note I wanted to recommend you to listen to Louise Hay she is a hero of mine and I listen to her on YouTube and audiobooks, is not only her experiences, faith, but her voice is also soothing, try it a few days and may be it can be one step. Hope that helps, big hugs,kisses.

Thank you friend . I'm sorry you are having a tough time . if you want to talk i am here

I'm so sorry you're strugging, crying, you don't deserve to struggle like this