[Miss_A]

A couple months at school long story but a boy who is a bit funny can be nice but can also be a jerk. I think he might have ADHA because in frot the class he did a rolly polly on the floor random time also shout out at class, picks fight with a boy ad can't sit in his chair proberly sometimes. It was francais ( French) last lesson had a bad day until he ame out with the words f*** off you imergrant. Firstly I'm not and so what if I am. Secondly why did he say that start to my face, what did I do or say to make him like that, Then I reactive in a strong way by feeling so low and hurt mostly said back to his face why did you say that? Because I'm not! Then he said I dunno and so. Then I brust into tears laying my head to the table. I let it get to me heart to heart kind of thing. I really can't look him in the eye yet hes in my classes. Just I never knew he could hurt my so much. Oh well let go of it, its his lost for losing someone who has a heart who can care and he actually was friends with me himself until he just threw it away. What a waste of friendship!

[Miss_A]

bump.

[maverick]

He sounds ADHD; Lack of restraint in responding (responding or saying things without thinking of the consequences first) If he is ADHD, he will probably continue to have these problems, and as these experiences build up over time, most people with ADHD suffer from depression. I have ADHD, and I have said things or acted on impulse, and then found myself shaking my head later, utterly confused, thinking, "Was that me?" and "Why on earth did I say that, or act that way?" Ask your "lost friend" if anyone has ever mentioned that he might have ADHD, and let him know he hurt your feelings, and owes you an apology; only if you are comfortable talking to him; That gives him a chance to own up to his actions; and if he doesn't, you're right, it's his loss!

[Miss_A]

Thank you for advice!

[maverick]

Sure

[Miss_A]

I really liked this guy though as we both had something there.

[maverick]

Hi Miss A

Have you talked to him yet, after that incident?

[Miss_A]

Tried to and he didn't want to know.
So I just give him evil looks.
He is a jerk.

[cms39]

Yes, probably an attention disorder.

I don't know anything about him. But you do know some people have Tourettes - which sometimes causes them to say/blurt things uncontrollably. It's usually very random though.

[Miss_A]

Yea, but why him though?
Why did he pretented to be nice to me?
Oh well, better get over him.
As a so called friend he was.

[maverick]

People have their own internal problems and agendas that often have nothing to do with you. You seem like a very nice person, so he must have his own issues (not to be taken personally).