When you tell me you will do it, I don't believe you.
When you tell me you can do it, I don't believe you.
When you tell me you will pay the bill, I don't believe you.
When you tell me you paid the bill, I don't believe you.
When you tell me it is taken care of, I don't believe you.
When you tell me you will be home at 6, I don't believe you.
When you tell me where you are going, I don't believe you.
When you tell me what you did all day, I don't believe you.
When you tell me you are going to quit smoking, I don't believe you.
When you tell me you don't drink too much, I don't believe you.
When you tell me where you are when talking on the cell phone, I don't believe you.
When you tell me you will change, I don't believe you.
When you tell me are faithful to me, I don't believe you.
When you tell me everything is fine, I don't believe you.
I must just be the untrusting sort, huh?

After reading this I wanted to crawl into a hole... This quote is "The Perception" that we ADDer's have dealt with our entire lives. It represents the Anger we know we face with every mistake and forgotten promise.

Well... 3+ years post diagnosis "I Know" my ADD is much better controlled.

***This Post was not directed at me, but at ADDer's in general***
I understand the behaviors that lead to this anger and it is posts like this that have helped me begin to move forward.

The post just really kind of made me feel like crap

[Travelinglady]

So sorry this post upset you. Some people still don't understand what it's like to have ADD/ADHD.

[BlueInanna]

Is this about how we dont trust our self? If so, I totally get it

Originally Posted by BlueInanna

Is this about how we dont trust our self? If so, I totally get it

Yep... The sinking feeling of when you realize you have let someone down, again... And you usually face anger and it is assumed you are either lazy or flat out don't care or you would have followed through...

[BlueInanna]

I do find myself apologizing quite a bit... work in progress, keep on keepin on.

yeah I see it.!

and yeah I did crawl into a hole and yeah I have stayed there...

in my hole where only I can stare at myself in dis-belief!

and when I let myself down like I do...it sure hurts alot less than letting others down so bad ...

so I stay in my hole, I have made it sort of comfortable.

I never let people down on purpose....and I don't let myself down on purpose either

I have no excuse?...but I aint leaving my hole I crawled into long ago...it's mine

Monkey... Down in a hole... Isn't that a song???
Since my ADD Dx, I have felt that I can improve myself and I believe I have, but the damned ADD is still there, pushed down a bit, but there waiting for it's moment to surface. If my marriage fails, I will have my answers regarding marriage for sure. I would get my own place have fun with friends, spend time with my beautiful daughters, but stay in my hole because I know I'll eventually screw up a relationship. The post that I read to inspire my post was like a dagger into me because I could watch my wife read it to me.

My ADD brain is so different than a Non-ADDer's brain, that I don't know how they can co-exist. Each brain is insecure, each fuels the others weaknesses and for then to work together each has to behave in a way comepletely agianst how it was trained to protect itself.

Bugs Bunny had some cool Rabbit Holes, maybe I'll end up with one too.

...I've got my super dooper home comfort zone hole!
but what I really want and need is the 'portable hole'



remember in the cartoons...



the portable hole...!



take it anywhere....escape from anything.

stuffed if I know where ya go?....but thats not important at the time nope

Doesn't Acme make portable holes?

yep