[countryguy]

I am trying to figure out if I have adult ADD. Along with other problems, changing my mind all the time is what really hurts my life. When I am dating someone one day I can be very happy even thing about spending the rest of my life with this woman, and the next minute she can do something so small and I don't want to be with her anymore. Also I have hobbies I am constantly changing in the same manner as woman. Did you deal with something similar when before being diagnosed with ADD?

[Travelinglady]

So far no one is saying they are having this problem. Maybe you could bring it up in Relationships and Communication as a problem people can have, whether or not they also have ADD/ADHD.

[BlueInanna]

I do have a hard time making decisions, especially big ones like moving in with my bf. I make pro's & con's lists but still it's like I'm putting off making the decision - procrastination is ADD related. I also have other mental health issues which he knows, so my biggest thing is do I really want to be stuck living with someone. What if I want to isolate ya know?

But other times I'm so damn impulsive, maybe mania related but also an ADD thing. Something seems like such a great idea and so fun at the time, then I'm looking back like what was I thinking.

So maybe knowing that in the back of my head, that I don't trust previous decisions, so I should be extra cautious and think things through carefully - now I'm seeing this circle pattern! Where's the balance? Ugh..