[Claire2015]

Is having temporary people in your life part of ADHD? My friend complains about having no one yet she cuts people off such as myself....

She has blocked me on every social network, my number etc which is ridiculous as i am the only person who is trying to help her but her boyfriend (who has a mutual disliking with me) has convinced her i'm trying to intentionally hurt her and make her feel bad about herself.. Although no one can make you feel anything without your consent.

Is temporary people part of ADHD?

Claire

[healingme4me]

I am not certain that it's adhd specific?

[Claire2015]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

I am not certain that it's adhd specific?

Thank you for that i was just wondering if it is ADHD although everyone has troubles now and again

Claire

[Cynical4096]

How long have you been friends? How much time have you spent together?

You have to be careful if she truly does not want contact with you, and at this time her behavior suggests that may be the case? How long have you been blocked for?

[Claire2015]

Originally Posted by Cynical4096

How long have you been friends? How much time have you spent together?

You have to be careful if she truly does not want contact with you, and at this time her behavior suggests that may be the case? How long have you been blocked for?

We have been friends since the start of high school so about 7 years, we were in eachothers lessons so we'd see eachother a lot however since college has ended she has distanced herself from nearly everyone. We hang out about 5-10 times a year now.

Yeah she doesn't right now i have been blocked for a month

Claire

[-jimi-]

Sometimes friendships simply don't work out. Maybe accept that and move on?

[Claire2015]

Originally Posted by -jimi-

Sometimes friendships simply don't work out. Maybe accept that and move on?

Fair point it's just she's lost everyone shes wanted to be friends with cause of it so i want to be different and be a friend to her even when it may be hard to. I think it's important to love people that are hard to love so that they don't feel worse about themselves (generally not just those with mental illnesses)

So yeah i could accept it but at the same time i'd be like everyone else that gave up with her instead of taking time to get to know her and try to help her with her ADD by telling her how it's affecting her and how her life will be easier if she gets treated for it.

"The ones who truly love you will never leave you, even if there are a hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on"

Integrity and loyalty are everything

Claire