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Feb 27, 2014, 09:04 AM
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I've been told several times that I'm being too bitter in certain situations and with certain persons. It's true that if the ocasion calls for it, I sometimes do make remarks/jokes about people - especially the ones I can't stand -, but don't they [NTs] do that too? Why am I being called 'bitter' after saying that, for example, someone's father looks like a money lender, if it's the truth? If an authoritarian person, a teacher, feels like telling me this, why don't they say that to others as well? Why others are labeled as 'rude', 'jerk' or 'immature' while I'm the only one 'bitter'? It's strange to me because I try to be as nice is I can.
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#2
Feb 27, 2014, 03:16 PM
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Other people's perception of you does not define your reality...tell them that, LOL...No one gets to decide how you feel and who you are.
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#3
Feb 28, 2014, 07:42 AM
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Exactly. For the record: do my remarks really upset/bother, making me look like I'm some sort of antisocial individual?
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#4
Feb 28, 2014, 08:22 AM
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If your remarks upset someone, that is THEIR stuff. Knowing the difference between your stuff...and their stuff is a big key.
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#5
Feb 28, 2014, 08:57 AM
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Fair enough.
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#6
Mar 03, 2014, 01:31 PM
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How does a money lender look like?
And are you ready to take it, if you dish it? Bitter or looking as money lender... you cannot comment on others in snarky ways and expect them to put on nice.
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#7
Mar 04, 2014, 02:39 AM
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People persist on telling me that I don't know when I've gone too far or crossed the line. I'm not actually a sociopath and the things I say are usually so vile that they have to be a joke right? I think everyone else is autistic because they don't understand that I'm not being serious. How am I rude? SHUT UP IS WHAT I SAY TO PEOPLE THAT SAY THAT. IT DOESNT MATTER JUST GET IN WITH IT AND STOP BEING SO SENSITIVE.
I'm done with people. I quit. I had enough just recently. I AM EXTREMELY FRUSTRATED AND HATE PEOPLE. Just let me do what I want so I can get on with my life. I refuse to say hi when I'm ordering something. I shall not say how are you because I don't care and have basically no empathy. I would mutilate a baby to see the mother cry. Who's rude now hmm? Only when I want something from them. Which seems sociopathic but I have no social skills so no not possible. Last edited by Anonymous33445; Mar 04, 2014 at 02:53 AM. |
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#8
Mar 04, 2014, 08:47 AM
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In my country, a 'money lender' looks like a fat thug, usually with moustache and almost bald.
I don't say it actually bothers me, I'n just curious if I'm too harsh with these assumptions. I do have my limits though. I can totally relate to not wanting to say 'how are you?', haha, but I've been doing it before I knew how to kick a ball, so... |
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Mar 04, 2014, 08:50 AM
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I think a good guide is "would I like if somebody said that about me/my family?"
Sometimes we feel we are funny, but we actually are not really.
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#10
Mar 04, 2014, 06:58 PM
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Edit...........................
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#11
Mar 05, 2014, 04:23 AM
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I have heard harsher words about myself or my family. It used to bother me, but now I don't care that much because I know it's not true.
My intention wasn't always to be funny, sometimes all I do is observe and then speak up. |
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