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Jan 15, 2017, 08:49 PM
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If a 20 something with aspergers and complex trauma, decides to get married and have a baby, then nearly 2 years later decides that they want to leave for no reason, other than their spouse eats cheese, they quit being affectionate to their spouse and are verbally abusive, raging like a child and refuse any professional help. They say they're going to leave their spouse and talking to people in the community about it. She has no justifiable reason to leave or treat him so badly. What is the spouse suppose to do? Just let her leave? I am doubting this has anything to do with asperger's or complex trauma. Does it?
Last edited by babkababy; Jan 15, 2017 at 09:17 PM. |
 Anonymous37894, Anonymous43829
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Jan 16, 2017, 01:25 PM
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Sounds to me it's just a fickle person that doesn't know what they want, and has nothing to do with asperger's or complex trauma. I can't imagine cheese has anything to do with it, for that doesn't make sense to me. If they don't want to work on the relationship, than that is something the other just has to deal with.
Good luck
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Jan 16, 2017, 01:58 PM
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I wouldn't stay in a relationship where someone was treating me badly regardless of the reason ... If the person refuses help for their issues and wants to leave, then yes, let them leave ... However, there appears to be a minor child involved, and if the mother isn't capable of caring for herself, then she certainly isn't able to care for a minor child, and this means that the other responsible adult in the child's life (the father) has a legal and moral obligation to make sure the child is safe ... That means involving whatever legal means necessary to achieve it ... With all that being said, best of luck to you (or whomever it is) that's in this awful situation!
Sincerely, Pflower! 
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Jan 21, 2017, 11:05 AM
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Hello OP, this sounds like a pretty bad situation, and if it were me I'd be pretty upset. My opinion is that it doesn't matter what your problem is, aspergers or anything else, it's never okay to take it out on other people and use it as an excuse. After all, every person in a relationship has a right to have their needs met, not just the person with a disorder.
It sounds like there is more going on here (eating cheese is a pretty bad excuse) - has anything else happened lately? |
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