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Feb 09, 2014 at 01:19 PM
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I flat out do not want to be anywhere close to my two best friends today...i feel like lately they have been being ungreatful for the help I offer them and they are also acting just plain rude....
they think that in the course of just a few hours everything is fine and that all will be forgotten...and I don't trust them.... I spend wayy to much time with the two of them as is....and I don't even really like it half the time... so i am making it a point to put some distance between me and them for a while... its nothing personal I just can't handle dealing with their crap anymore right now... but then again I hate dealing with other people in general half the time I hat stepping out of my own house. __________________ Dx:OCD, AD/HD-C and ADD kinda both, General Anxiety Disorder, Separation Anxiety Disorder,Abandonment Anxiety, Cycothymic disorder, or mixed bipolar, Border Line Personality Disorder,Histonic Personality Disorder, Dependent Personality disorder, eating disorder ]Rx:Lamotrigine 25mg twice a day for my mood stablizer as well as I am on Escitalopram 10mg 1 daily, Buspirone 3 times daily 10mgs VT Student, CNA student, working HHA  for my father I think of you everyday
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Feb 09, 2014 at 04:16 PM
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there is nothing wrong with wanting your own space and steering clear of drama...everybody needs a little time to themselves...take care.
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Feb 09, 2014 at 04:56 PM
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the thing that ends up bein bothersome to me and too people around me is that I distance myself from people a lot...and they end up kind of getting feed up with it from me.....
to some degree I just don't feel like I can help it at times __________________ Dx:OCD, AD/HD-C and ADD kinda both, General Anxiety Disorder, Separation Anxiety Disorder,Abandonment Anxiety, Cycothymic disorder, or mixed bipolar, Border Line Personality Disorder,Histonic Personality Disorder, Dependent Personality disorder, eating disorder ]Rx:Lamotrigine 25mg twice a day for my mood stablizer as well as I am on Escitalopram 10mg 1 daily, Buspirone 3 times daily 10mgs VT Student, CNA student, working HHA for my father I think of you everyday
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Feb 09, 2014 at 05:09 PM
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The guy I wanted to date told me "I got tired of waiting for you" and is dating someone else. We're friends still, but apparently I didn't talk to him for about a year or two. In college, it was a thing to "find his hiding spots". Just kindly explain that you need time away. Respond with texts, etc. If they can't understand, then you may not want to be friends with them. |
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Mar 28, 2014 at 03:01 PM
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I go through this a lot too. I push people away and silently hate them. And then I have days where I wake up and just want to hug them, laugh, and say I love them; I can't imagine not seeing them.
Right now I want to avoid. But I live with my best friend and can't have her being mad at me for ditching her ..three more weeks till I live alone. Not sure it is wise. |
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