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Dec 15, 2015, 07:30 PM
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Anyone else here have trouble spending time with friends? I don't want to plan to be with them, I hope they cancel when the date nears, but then I enjoy the time with them. Makes no sense.
I only have 2 friends, but I value their friendships. I'm confused. |
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Dec 15, 2015, 08:23 PM
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yup. i do the same thing.
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Dec 18, 2015, 11:09 AM
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The only thing I can tell you is that you won't die if you plan doing things with them and there are many posibilities that you enjoyed the time. Sorry, I can't be of much help.
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Dec 18, 2015, 07:10 PM
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"you won't die if you plan doing things with them"
Lol. Great point. |
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Dec 19, 2015, 01:03 AM
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My social life is pretty reduced but I know I have to keep a grade of socialization to mantain my health.
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Dec 26, 2015, 08:41 PM
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I have trouble with plans. I always feel like they're just going along with a plan if I initiate due to feeling obligated. Then I want to cancel, but I can't because I made the plans. But then I worry that it'll be disasterous. If I do cancel then I worry about being a flake and that they'll never agree to spend time with me again.
If they make the plan and I agree then I feel like I absolutely have to or they'll never invite me again -I also say yes even when I know I don't actually want to. If I cancel then I worry that they will be angry (I find it's easier to cancel if it's a group thing.) I usually have a good time once I'm out - especially if it's 1:1. Most of the time people who have gotten to know me somewhat,well, they can often figure out it's best to invite me at the last minute - I'm more likely to go "Ok I'll get ready now" and don't have the time to worry too much and cancel. lol.
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Dec 27, 2015, 01:33 AM
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Dec 28, 2015, 09:03 PM
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