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I’ve been diagnosed with this by 3 professionals.
I don’t like talking about this. I don’t know if they were all wrong and it is “just” social anxiety.. I typed out a post. I deleted it. I typed out another post. And deleted it. And now having typed this out, I feel like deleting this too I’m guessing that if I do make a post here, nobody with Avpd will give me “advice” like “grow a thick skin” or other helpful ? one liners... Or a post in big screaming letters which is essentially a one liner and very unhelpful... I do maybe have some “coping” mechanisms which some with Avpd don’t have.. I developed these to put 10 claws up to the judging, blaming “professionals” in this forest. Their words were so ugly.. and not “only” one “professional” I try to be kind and not hostile... maybe some see that and my sensitivity as “weak”. EFF them... But one of the labelling professionals (irl) claimed I was hostile (to “justify” his abuse ) (Not about anyone on pc) __________________ |
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BreakForTheLight, mountainstream
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Wisest Elder Ever
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#2
Thanks to the person who hugged me.. I appreciate it.
It doesn’t appear that I’m likely to receive much support here. Ironic, since the senior clinician I’d consulted for ****kng YEARS insisted I had “severe” avoidant pd. and WHY would I want that?? I’m not insane........ Good luck to the posters here. __________________ |
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(((((Fuzzy))))) the professionals are all so far up themselfs they all need a native guide to find their way out again
My own experience is if someone needs help they don't give a flying ........ you know the rest |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Sadly I agree with you about the “professionals” in this forest EFF them And this is not an invitation for anyone to tell me I’m wrong.. Thanks so much __________________ |
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*gets on the Fuzzybear is right" bus*
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,445
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21 81.4k hugs
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#7
Thanks for the support from those who aren’t invested in “criteria” and judgments. I doubt if I’ll be “bothering” people here with my diagnosed disorder. I give support and do not feel respected in return. These are MY feelings. It is sad to me how unwelcoming this feels. I doubt if it would feel welcoming to a new person either. MY opinion - not everyone with a diagnosis is The Same.
And of course, some “professionals” make mistakes. Regards __________________ |
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#8
I have been diagnosed with this. My therapist also said I’m boring. This was not helpful. hugs
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