[leah0306]

Hi everyone, sorry i havent kept up with posting, been so discouraged lately, mood out of control, and husband problems... he was paid about400 dollars last night, and well i get up in the morning and see his activity on an online poker site and he spent 275!!! Stayed up to 5:00 blowing money on poker games, so around 8:00 i go and confront him and he gives me this STUPID look, im so pissed i could really hurt him, we hadnt even went grocery shopping yet, or paid our cell bills,...i dont have an income so he makes the money and has the most control, i dont know what to do...feel like crying or attacking him...

[kadesgirl09]

im so sorry to hear that Leah. Will he get another pay check soon? Hopefully you wont have to let your cell phones be late just so you can have groceries.
Take a deep breath and calm down if at all possible. Dont let this trigger you please. (((Leah)))

[Skully]

I don't blame you for being mad. Let him know how upset you are and what his actions have done to you. Maybe then he will understand. If you continue to stay silent he is more likely to continue doing the things that upset you. Speak up and be heard.

[NuckingFutz]

Wow. He really pissed your money away. I hope this is not an addiction for him. You got good advice so far. I would also recommend you do the budget and work on something that works for both of you. If he does this again, it might be an addiction issue. Please keep posting to let us know how you are doing. Hang in there!