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#1
Jan 01, 2006, 03:31 PM
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Today... the first day of a brand new year.... and I am having such a hard time.
 Feel I can trust no one in my family. I'm not good enough for them.. they don't care if I am sad, lonely, worried... or even crying. My feelings don't matter right now. All they care about is how well they are doing.
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Jan 01, 2006, 03:38 PM
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I am sorry
grrr at familes like that  (sounds familiar to me ...)Sending you many positive vibes for better days soon ((((((((((((MP))))))))))))
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Jan 01, 2006, 03:46 PM
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Jenn,
It's so hard to believe this, I know... But IT'S THEM sweetie. It's there own crap that blinds them and they can't see the positive in anything. They don't understand "positive" so they turn the tables. You end up the bad guy and hurting and they feel better. I know this won't make you feel better because they are your family and it hurts, but they are only your family by blood. Let us be your family by love. Try to remind yourself how much everyone here cares about you. You mean a great deal to a lot of people here. We all see a different Jenn. A caring, loving Jenn.. We cannot all be wrong.  Petunia |
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Jan 01, 2006, 03:59 PM
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May we be your substitute family where you are always good enough, we care how you are feeling and we want the best for you. Wishing you the best and may your real family recognize what a wonderful person you are.
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Jan 01, 2006, 05:58 PM
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{{{{{{{{{MP}}}}}}}}}}
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Jan 02, 2006, 12:10 AM
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I hate it when people are so self-centered and don't care about anybody else. Thank goodness we are here for you and DO care about how you're feeling and about how you're doing.
Hang in there.
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Jan 02, 2006, 01:09 AM
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(((((MP))))) sounds a lot like my family..... whenever they need someone you're right there w/ them and whenever they're okay again, then you should be okay too...well, it doesn't work like that.
maybe they just don't realize how bad you're doing? hope you'll feel better....
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Jan 02, 2006, 10:56 AM
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Thanks, everyone.
I'm feeling better today knowing that I have my real family here to catch me when I fall.  I appreciate that more than anything! You're all so good to me, and I couldn't ask for a better family than you!(((Fuzzy))) (((Petunia))) (((bipolar_bear))) (((Azalysa))) (((Lexicon))) (((backandforth)))
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Jan 02, 2006, 06:20 PM
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I'm glad you are feeling a bit better sweetie!
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Jan 02, 2006, 06:28 PM
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((((time0))))
Thank you so much!! You are always such a sweetheart around here! I don't know how we ever made it without you! 
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"There are things we need to forget and forgive, Sometimes we have to try and shed the damage we don't need." Silverchair- All Across The World |
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Jan 03, 2006, 05:04 AM
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Just in case you need an extra hug today - {{{{{{{{MP}}}}}}}}
 I'm not sure what this Smiley represents but I like it and enjoy popcorn (especially in a movie theater) so inviting you to share some with me. Salt and/or butter?  Aza
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Jan 03, 2006, 10:53 AM
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((((((((((Azalysa))))))))))
You are so wonderful!! I'm glad you're my friend!! And you even brought popcorn!!! heheheh! I like salt AND butter... LOTS of butter, too!! 
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"There are things we need to forget and forgive, Sometimes we have to try and shed the damage we don't need." Silverchair- All Across The World |
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Jan 03, 2006, 02:57 PM
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I'm glad you are feeling a bit better now. ((((MP)))) This illness sure puts us through the ringer, eh? (I proudly display my Canadian Heritage) This place sure does become another family and I am glad that you are part of it.
Laura
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Jan 03, 2006, 07:15 PM
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You display your Canadian Heritage proudly, eh?
 (((((((((((((Laura)))))))))))) thank you so much!!!!! I am so happy I am a part of this, too. Lordy, how this illness CAN put us through the ringer!!! Thanks again!
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"There are things we need to forget and forgive, Sometimes we have to try and shed the damage we don't need." Silverchair- All Across The World |
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Jan 03, 2006, 10:45 PM
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i second what everyone else said. we're family here and we love you. you are one of the greatest people here and it' is your family's problem that they can't see that. please lean on us. love, pat
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Jan 03, 2006, 11:41 PM
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(((((((((((((MP))))))))))))) We are still with you. You can rely on us.
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Jan 04, 2006, 10:39 AM
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Thank you, Pat! I am truly touched. I have all these great people here that REALLY do care and love me for who I am regardless of my illnesses or anything else. My own family can just think whatever they wanna think. I have all of you!
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Jan 04, 2006, 10:42 AM
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(((((((((bipolar_bear))))))))))
You always have uplifting words for me when I am down! I couldn't thank you enough.. I'm not used to being able to lean on others. But I have that here, and I have to learn to do just that!!
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"There are things we need to forget and forgive, Sometimes we have to try and shed the damage we don't need." Silverchair- All Across The World |
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Jan 04, 2006, 11:06 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((MP)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
you are kind and caring and understanding and everyone is here for you! hope the day brings you beautiful things.
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