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Jan 31, 2012, 10:23 PM
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He sent me a text today after I asked to come over for a "visit" (a role which it seems he's backed me into lately). He said, "Not for a while, sorry". So I said, "What's the problem?" and he says, "If our sexual encounters become too habitual and frequent then I'm just going to panic and say no sex." I replied, "Uh whatever. Thanks. You are screwed up. Enjoy it."
WTF?~!   I then wrote him an email that said I wasn't going to take that kind of treatment - treat me like a **** buddy and then take even that away- and pretty soon we were going to split forever. The thing is, he does act like a boyfriend a lot of the time we're together. He just is searching for his "soulmate" you see. Needless to say, I've had no response to either message. Meanwhile... The last several weeks, I've been working up to visit with someone I've known for longer than non-bf. We've been off and on, but I'm really looking forward to a fun, laid-back, happy time Thursday.
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Jan 31, 2012, 11:47 PM
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I am a very new member but I feel as if I may be starting to understand things about me. As such I can see myself in you. I enter into similar debates with myself about guys. I'm starting to see that they are obsessive and ruining my life. Life I'm seeing for me is not about being dependent on someone in this case a man for my happiness. It is up to me. Hope this helps, berly
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Feb 01, 2012, 12:12 AM
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I agree with Berly. You need to make your own happiness. You should be with a guy who respects you and who wants to be with you just to be with you.
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Feb 01, 2012, 02:02 PM
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Ditto the above !
Moose you DESERVE so much better 
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Feb 01, 2012, 07:58 PM
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He doesn't understand why I'm upset. I sent him another email today. Meanwhile, he sends me happy texts.
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