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May 19, 2012, 03:15 AM
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I have never felt so clear in my life. I still feel the pain that life brings but I can think clearly on my decisions and rationalize them. I have not felt that in a long time. I have always felt like a puppy dog with his tail under his legs and his hair standing up on his behind. I am ready to face reality and move on with life to heal myself. I would love to live on my own with my boys by my side 50 % of the time. I hate to say those words because I would love to have them a 100% of the time, but obviously thats not possibale in a divorce. I am now ready to fill out he papers so I can start living my life instaed of waiting for her to make up her mind on what she wants to do. I need to heal, heal , heal , and heal. That way I can be there for my kids and myself.
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May 19, 2012, 12:02 PM
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GREAT POSITIVE ATTITUDE jaypop!
You know I have found that after the romantic beginnings of a relationship I became more passionate about the love I have for my children then I ever had for my wife(s). Marriage became more about who I was allowed to be and the lives I helped create than the woman I lived. Great rewards can be had by being a father (even if only half the time) and believe me a person can never feel love more deeply than that of the love for your child.
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#3
May 19, 2012, 01:27 PM
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Acceptance is this key (for things that cannot be changed or that are out of your control) At least that has been my experience. Im happy to hear your good and positive attitude! KNUCKLES!
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May 20, 2012, 12:44 AM
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I'm so glad you made a chose about what's best for you and your children. You sound so much happier then you have been.
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Dx: Me- SzA Husband- Bipolar 1 Daughter- mood disorder+ Comfortable broken and happy "So I don't know why I'm tongue tied At the wrong time when I need this."- P!nk My blog |
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May 20, 2012, 04:16 AM
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Thank you so much!!!! I do feel muchbetter then a few days ago. Its almost like a light has come on in my brain or like someone had blown the fog away. I can actually think clearly.
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May 20, 2012, 06:19 PM
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What had such a positive effect?
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May 21, 2012, 12:09 PM
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