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Oct 23, 2012, 12:39 PM
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My husband was nice to me all last night. He probably got laid, not by me, and, I don't even care, matter of fact, hope it continues. How weird am I? I have issues...
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Oct 23, 2012, 01:46 PM
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Your post reminded me of an old Italian movie with Vivien Leigh. She plays the wife. She meets with the mistress and tells her about the fact that the affair has improved the marriage and made the man better in bed, and pleads with the mistress to continue.
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Oct 23, 2012, 02:07 PM
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Not weird. I wish sometimes my H could get his fix elssewhere and leave me alone. I have attatchment issues and would rather be left alone.
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Oct 23, 2012, 02:12 PM
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Not weird because, if it gives you a reprieve from someone being mean, of course you would rather have him be nice. It makes sense. But, it is sad and I hope you can find real peace instead.
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Oct 23, 2012, 02:18 PM
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I can understand Kelli, he's been a drain on you with the cheating and mean-ness, but you must feel like you need to stay for now to have a roof over your head. I'm glad you seem stronger and detaching from him. These are probably good steps towards your independance and freedom from him. Just it does take time to make a plan. I've had breakups last years while I had to figure everything out. But if he gets mean or unsafe please get out of there and go to women's shelter. Hope you are ok
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Oct 23, 2012, 02:22 PM
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He also might be nicer to you if he senses you are detaching, or senses something is up. There is a lot of push pull with abuse. But it makes sense how you feel.
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Oct 26, 2012, 08:00 PM
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Not weird at all. I feel bad sometimes because I don't want to have sex for a long time I think to myself would it be better for him if he was to go get it elsewhere.
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