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#1
Oct 31, 2012, 12:33 PM
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Just as brother and I were plotting our bff's gf's demise, she announces she's PREGNANT! I love babies,but with HER? REALLY? Our friend deserves better, and now I'm stuck with her too, for the REST OF MY LIFE! Trying to be happy for them, but ugh, the very thought of her summons vomit. I'm being a cow, I know, and it makes me feel bad, guilty... But I cant be happy for them, idk how. Ya, I'm being a cow... Just venting
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#2
Oct 31, 2012, 01:46 PM
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Yikes. Is she just annoying or is she a mean person?
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Oct 31, 2012, 01:50 PM
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Ugh .. You are not a Cow .. You are just being honest.
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Oct 31, 2012, 01:58 PM
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Venting is good. So is honesty.
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Oct 31, 2012, 02:13 PM
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She's controlling,dictates when he can see us,belittles him infront of the guys, basically, she likes to parade him around as her little slave boy... Its maddening, but his self-esteem is so low,half the time he's just happy to actually HAVE a gf. I feel like I'm being a cow, idk how I'm to 'behave' (literally, I want to have a go at her) around her FOREVER. Its a LONG time, and alot to ask of me. I have to stop the venom from oozing out my mouth at every interaction with her... I dont like this.
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Oct 31, 2012, 02:40 PM
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We tried to include her in our stuff, movie marathons, hikes and so forth. She said she doesnt come to visit us, she is there to visit him! She basically attempts to chuck us out of his house if our visits overlap. She monopolizes him, and doesnt even hide it. She has on several occasions, cancelled her plans, to stop him from going off and doing something with us instead. Idk how, or why he takes this BS, but I know its taking its toll on him. I can only imagine what adding a baby to the mix will do
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Oct 31, 2012, 02:51 PM
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Oh no
 I'm sorry this person is in your life.... And I'm very sorry for your friend to be trapped with her forever. Even if they break up there will be no escape and I can only imagine the nightmare of having her as an ex to share a kid...
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Oct 31, 2012, 03:28 PM
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Well this woman sounds like a selfish controlling person. She'll be in for a rude awakening when she sees what it's like to be pregnant and she's no longer the center of attention, only the little baby she's carrying will be! She'll be begging you all for help, support, baby-sitting before you know it, in all likelyhood. Maybe this childbirth will be part of the humbling experience she needs to be a better person.
Sorry this is a big pill to swallow for you guys. And totally out of your hands, so frustrating. Let's just hope it all turns out ok somehow. 
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Oct 31, 2012, 10:04 PM
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 then you must be the most adorable exciting little cow I've ever met!!  ...gonna make it interesting at my next therapy sesh! "hey doc I've got a sudden and inexplicable bovine fetish!"  ....hey but I know what you mean about having that intense perception and you see things others likely don't ...or refuse to or whatever and you just can't help it and it's unbeleeeeeivable!! and then on some personal morality level it backfires. I do it all day and feel like an a-hole about it. |
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Oct 31, 2012, 11:04 PM
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PLUS! I'm VERRRY sure she's cheating on him... We played a phone prank on HIM, not knowing she was there and she flipped out for a WEEK, coz she thought there was a woman on the other end (guilty concience much?) not only that, and other signs, but when our other friend was telling us his xgf cheated on him, and he was listing the red flags,she loudly started going ON AND ON AND ON about Jordan's long HAIR! She was squirming so much trying to change the topic, I swear I could see slime oozing out her ears!
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Oct 31, 2012, 11:06 PM
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Its horrible, but I wish he's not the father. But I have to get over it, and hope it all turns out well for HIM. Thanks for letting me vent guys
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Nov 01, 2012, 11:22 AM
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Well, here's a thought...
I think that when that baby is born he should ask her to do a paternity test. No joke. If she refuses, then you know you've got a cheater on your hands. I was not married to my husband when we had my middle son. I knew 100% it was his, but if he demanded a paternity test, I would have taken it instantly. Without question. Of course, middle son is practically his clone, so... (Actually saw a pic of mother-in-law when she was 6 and she had a similar short hair cut as middle son, well, she's like making this angry screaming face in the pic. LOL. If it wasn't for the yellowing, age, and fact that her brother is also in that pic, it looks like my son! No joke. He even makes that exact face when he's mad.  )Anyway, he should get a paternity test. He should. And if she refuses and blinds him, you will know she's cheating. If you have nothing to hide, then there is no reason to refuse.
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