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Old Oct 29, 2012, 02:57 PM
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Also, just because you have known someone a long time doesn't mean they are obligated to be in your life. Sometimes you have to remove toxic people. Sometimes those people are blood relatives, sometimes friends, sometimes co-workers...

I think sometimes we think we're stuck with someone, but we're not, just because we've known them forever. It's like the ugly sweater you get as a gift. You feel obligated to keep it.
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Old Oct 29, 2012, 03:02 PM
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yeah.. forgetting about people is hard..
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Old Oct 29, 2012, 06:58 PM
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I think its very hard to maintain "normal" healthy friendships when you are bipolar. I am blessed to have built a very close knit family of my own children, their spouses, their spouses' families and my grandson. Honestly, outside of them and you wonderful folks, I dont put much effort into building social networks or friends bc I have had so many experiences w/ ppl using me or "ditching" me- often bc they couldn't handle my BP- but sometimes just bc I was "ditch-able" I guess. All that said, I do NOT think that just bc being BP makes friendships harder to find and maintain that we should compromise and accept negative or even destructive friendships. Even tho this person has been in your life a long time, that doesn't necessarily means she DESERVES to continue to have a place in your life.
I agree with you. I'm not bipolar (as far as I know) but it's also been very hard for me to maintain healthy relationships, and I have compromised and accepted negative and destructive friendships--which is why it took me so long to break it off with that friend I spoke of earlier. I have one particular friend who has some issues herself, but I don't feel she is toxic for me. She takes responsibility for her own actions and recovery, and she is not out to use people. (((((HUGS))))
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Old Nov 01, 2012, 11:34 AM
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I know I shouldn't have done the things I did and for that I am so sorry. Friends Forever? d:
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Old Nov 02, 2012, 10:14 AM
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