[Moose72]

Lets just say she contacted "him" and told him who knows what. But now he seems upset with me which is what I think her plan was!

I texted him explaining this. No response.

She is now my ex friend. To purposefully to to start us fighting. Not okay!

[faerie_moon_x]

Wow... that is not a friend to be spreading rumors and causing fights. You did the right thing. People like that are the ones with the real problems in my opinion.

[Moose72]

Yes. She is very insecure about her relationship and her life in general.

Now I haven't heard from him-who she messaged- for 24 hours.

[faerie_moon_x]

Well, maybe he is busy and unable to contact you.

Or, if he is not busy and taking what she said as true without getting your side, then he is not much of a friend, either. It's also very immature and childish to behave that way.

I am sorry this is happening to you. I hope it is the first reason and not the second reason.

[Moose72]

Ty Dark!

[faerie_moon_x]

Hope you're feeling a bit better. I hate drama between people. If it were up to me, people who cause drama would all be locked in a room together. A sound proof room. Made of glass... and we can all sit outside eating popcorn watching them like a silent film.

[Moose72]

Originally Posted by dark_heart_x

Hope you're feeling a bit better. I hate drama between people. If it were up to me, people who cause drama would all be locked in a room together. A sound proof room. Made of glass... and we can all sit outside eating popcorn watching them like a silent film.

I wish!

This was really mean of her. Pointedly so.

[Victoria'smom]

Sorry that you are dealing with this. My sister does the same thing with me when she gets jealous of my relationships / life. If he doesn't realize he's getting baited he's not worth your time. She is not worthy of any second that she stays in your life. Even your anger is more than she deserves of your life.

[Moose72]

Still haven't heard from him. :-/ another friend said give it a bit for him to realize that this was her not me. Long wait.

Meanwhile, I've hidden her on Facebook. I think she has real issues- likely BPD or something. She's so insecure then attacks other people when her life really isn't that bad.

[~Christina]

Sorry a person you considered a friend did this to you. If " he" believes her and doesn't contact you ... well then hes no better..

[BlueInanna]

we're too old for this kind of friend!! wth!! i run into it too.

u going to confront her? find out what the heck was said? i know most might say let it rest, but she's getting away with too much!!

[Moose72]

I think she wants a fight. I'm not giving her the satisfaction. Mean people aren't going to change. I'm thinking it's that she's drinking a lot but I have got proof because she lives far away.

[Moose72]

I still haven't heard from him.

[faerie_moon_x]

It's very unfortunate that he is being this way.

[Moose72]

Yes. Plus she is replying to my posts- at least I can still see her "likes". And that means she's acting as if everything is hunky dorey.

[Anika.]

Ya, I would let her wonder about your lack of talking to her... for a long while, maybe forever. Confronting her is okay too, if you don't get sucked back in. I don't take people back after something like that. Maybe it's the Scorpio in me. Sorry, I agree what is his problem? Leave you hanging, not cool either Moose . I am sorry!

Blue, i am sorry you run into this too... wtf! Where do these people come from?