I need some quick help.

Hey! I know this topic isn't really THAT fitting for the bipolar forum, but I just feel more comfortable since I have talked to some of the people on here before. Anyway, I need some quick advice. So I just got home from school, and I don't know what to do tonight. Me and my one friend were planning on going to see breaking dawn tonight. But, we realized that they pre-brought their tickets, and I didn't. So we could either end up in different theaters, or they might even be sold out completely. I don't know if she is going to call me or not, and I don't have much time to wait. I have a viewing to go to, it's optional, but I will need to decide before 5:30 if I am going to it or not. My other option is to go to a different friend's house to spend the night. The problem with this, is that it is either awesome or terrible. When I am feeling fine or overly excited, then it is fine because I can actually talk and do stuff with her. When I am happy, I love going and have an awesome time. However, the times I am not feeling too well, it is complete hell. This is because she does NOT shut up, and always wants me to talk and stuff, which is really hard then. So it is kind of a luck thing, I never know how it's going to go. I have to decide what I am going to do at least before 5:30, any advice? Do you guys have an ideas on what I should do?

If there's a chance that it could be upsetting to you, I wouldn't involve myself in it at all. Your calmness and peace of mind are far more important.

I totally agree with that! But I have a lot of trouble reaching peace, I always worry. Like if I were to not go to my friends house, I will end up feeling guilty about it. And like I need to, or else she will get mad.

I would say not to go stay at your friend's house if it is going to be an upseting occasion. If you already don't feel well, then don't go.

As for the movie have you checked online if tickets are still available for the same showing? That would be the first thing to do.

This is not the behavior of a true friend. I say it would be better to go to the movie, even if you're in different theaters. Tell your friend you're going ot the movie and if she doesn't like it, then she's not your friend.

Going to the movie sounds awesome... But I am like scared about being alone. I HATE being surrounded (which will be true cause it will be so busy) by a bunch of people I don't know. It makes me feel extremely uncomfortable. I would be so worried the whole time, it pretty much wouldn't be worth it.

Well, check online or call the theatre see if there is a seat still in the showing your friend is going to. And if not... well still don't go spend the night at that other friends house if they are going to cause you trouble.

Thanks! Maybe I can call my friend to see which theater she is going to. Then I will go online and see if there are any seats left. I really appreciate your advice!

I hope you get to see your movie and have fun!

Thanks! My friend ended up telling me that she was going to Canada tomorrow, so I wouldn't be able to spend the night anyway. They are driving, so she would have to go early. And my one friend hasn't called, so I am waiting since she might not be available right now. I am staying home and skipping the viewing. I wish I would be alone, but my parents were worried that something would happen, so my dad is staying home with me. I am feeling pretty good right now.

Ah well, the movie will probably be in theaters for a while so I'm sure you'll get to see it later. Glad to hear you're feeling okay.

Yeah, it probably will be. And thanks! How are you feeling?

I'm off a bit. Not terrible. My rage has subsided some and a bit more managable since the Lithium is kicking in. I'm tired, though, didn't sleep well. But, it's Friday and tomorrow I can sleep in.

Well, hopefully things don't get worse! And that's awesome that you can get more sleep, sleeping in is the best!

My friend called, it turns out I am actually going to see breaking dawn with her! I am going to spend the night at her house afterwards since it is going to end at like midnight.

I'm glad you get to go with your friends, have fun girl!