[Miss Laura]

You guys are the only people who understand me

My family really infuriates me sometimes. For about 2 weeks my Sister who is my Twin has been irritating me to the point we are constantly fighting. yes we are nearly 28 and we fight. We just have this s@@@ relationship where we fight most of the time. Tonight she asks what I have been up to today, she knows fine well what I have been up to today as I texted her. This added fuel to the fire and she was nasty towards me.

My Mum seems to think I am her personal cook. I make the tea most nights as she finishes work at 5pm and wants her tea on the table as soons as she gets home. She moans and is peeved off if this doesn't happen.

Last night she asked me to make Chicken Faijita's for tea which is fine as I like making them. But then she says don't bother making them until I get home. Well this can be anything from 5:15pm to 5:30pm as she gets a lift home from her colleague or my Dad goes and collects them. So she gets home at 5:30pm and obviously I haven't made the tea. So she is peeved. I said well you did say last night and in your text this morning not to make it until you got home. She says no I meant if we didn't have the ingredients...... cause I am a mind reader!!!!

So lets just put it this way my Mum is peeved at me, I am peeved at her.... My Dad starts his stirring as usual and my Sister jumps on the bandwagon. So I come up to my room which is above the Livingroom and I hear them talking about me. On my Facebook page I have a few Bipolar support groups there and my Mum says "she keeps putting up them stupid status" She is referring to the wellness words that we all know and hear to make us feel better. Now its not like I do it all the time and I only put up the ones that mean something to me. So I am not allowed to do this?????

F@@@ this!!! I have had it up to here with this bull@@@@!!! My family do not get me at all as they are "normal" ye right!!!!!

I am majorly peeved and have been sitting crying over this. Why is it that my family can not be supportive!!! My Sister says "she is having one of her moments" "she is being her usual weird self" I AM NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE AN OFF DAY!!! They DO NOT even know how bad this stupid condition causes me as I hide it all from them.

I am definately going to move out. Think I will talk to my Support Worker tomorrow as this family is causing me to feel crap as always!

Sorry for rant, I am just really angry!!

sorry you're family are making you feel like this, laura

i can totally relate- as mine have found it easier to totally shut me out, then to help me deal with things and it pisses me off.

with the facebook thing.. don't let it get to you.

you put what you want up their- and if they don't like it, it's not like they can change it anyway

as harsh as it may sound, have you thought of delleeting them from fb

[ishouldbhappy]

My mother past away 3 year ago I miss her so much. My sister dont talk to me. My father only call me when he wants something and never thank me. I think if u move out you will get along better. dont let them get the best of u. Good luck.

[Miss Laura]

Hey there,

I can't delete them from Facebook as I live with them and that would make living with them unbearable adding more issues to the fire. Plus its not very grown up to delete them since I live with them and over stupid things like this.

Moving out is the best option as I have been feeling suffocated in here for months. I have been putting off putting my name down for a Council flat. But think I definately need to do it now. I moved out before and should never have moved back. Only did it cause I was in major debt and suffering from sever depression.

I just want some peace and quiet and someone in my family to say ye I know where your coming from. But that is like waiting for pigs to fly

[Victoria'smom]

Moving out was the most healing thing I could do with my family relationships. Make a list of them in options on FB and exclude them from your motivational posts.

[Miss Laura]

Hey Miguel'smom,

I have told my Support Worker I want/need to move out and she is gonna help me look into getting a Council Flat and look into benefits. She said getting a flat could be a long wait up to a year

I have deleted the motivational posts and unlike their pages just to keep the peace in my house and so not to upset anyone