...how come the little dudes cry so much?...

they be freaking right out!...tiny nude dudes in a frightening world!
it's the perfect distraction from ANYTHING...and especially because of EVERYTHING!

...whats the difference being older and in pants and stuff?

sure...familiarity?...get so used to things being any which way...
I can just talk my way out of my problems ...even better just think my way out?

...lets just go huge and EXPECT our way out of problems...

just as crybaby easily expects to cry it's little innocent mind out of control..

such a shame allthough a world full of big crybabies would be scary!

...but...?

the tears talk more than anything and aint it amazing they come out of the eyes!...the soul....
the perfect personal medicine...they separate us from the nasty stuff with the ultimate self sympathy...

I cried tonite and it felt awesome....I don't do it enough

[faerie_moon_x]

I cry way too often.

I cry when I'm angry, sad, hurt, even happy sometimes. I would rather cry very little. People consider crying to be weakness, I hate it.

it's not a weakness darkx

..I'm wondering it's a weakness to distrust our feelings and hold it in!

...trusting otherwise in other peoples perceptions instead of our own...
and holding it in..

crying is kinda infectious...ever notice that seeing others tears softens us right up!...

it's sort of equivalent to laughter and being a complete goofball...

and to laugh and cry together...? WOW!...very cool...

aint no weakness....it's the opposite

[Clinte89]

Crying is defiantly not a weakness, I wish I could cry more but the big men don't cry thing still has me by the balls. Crying feels good like monkey said you cry from the soul and its a good way to release pain to make things seem good for a minuet afterward even if for just a second a good cry is worth it.

[faerie_moon_x]

One of my old psychology teachers was friends with a man who became a woman. The thing that surprised her most was as she took the hormone treatment she found herself becoming more and more able to cry. So I don't know if it's I have too much girl hormones or what, but it drives me crazy. Even if I could reduce my crying by half it would be better.

I seen pregnant women...like they be more vulnerable to crying...

maybe it is a hormone?...but I'm quite sure I've never been pregnant..

....yes even I have know clue to where the sensitivity comes from?

...but I do believe it is a gift to be forced enlightenment with tears...

it's just a ridiculous shame that the modern "cool" human is "supposed" to have 'it' together!...

the closer we get to this ridiculous sophistication?...

the further we get from reality...from true humanity...from life...from ourselves

humans shed tears at the start and at the end!...

what the hell happened to the in-between...

cool is for the fool!....

[faerie_moon_x]

I agree with you. We are nothing like the humans who first walked around and made little tribes. But that's because we've forced ourselves into this society of "professionalism" and "consumerism" and took away the tribes. And why? M-O-N-E-Y the most useless substance on earth become the most important. Talk about evelution!

I think crying is fine, but I mean, I cry at every little thing. It's annoying. I cry at least 2-3 times every day, sometimes I can't stop crying for a whole day. It's annoying, trust me.

ok...I trust you...

here's how I wonder it...

drifting thinking...

stuff melts in our heads ....pain liquifies...

we see inside so the only way out?

is to get wet in the face....and even our own hands can't dry that sh...t up!

tears are like personal liquid magic runny unfunny sensitive sunny...

exotic...
babies know exactly what they are doing!!

[BlueInanna]

crying must be the healthiest, most natural way to release emotions, cuz babies do it, they have not yet learned all the unhealthy ways to stuff emotions.

some days when i cannot stop crying, it is annoying. I'll be crying from stress, then see something beautiful and cry harder. it's like wtf am i, the crystal geyser factory? how much water can someone have in their body...

[faerie_moon_x]

Originally Posted by BlueInanna

crying must be the healthiest, most natural way to release emotions, cuz babies do it, they have not yet learned all the unhealthy ways to stuff emotions.

some days when i cannot stop crying, it is annoying. I'll be crying from stress, then see something beautiful and cry harder. it's like wtf am i, the crystal geyser factory? how much water can someone have in their body...

Exactly! If tears were gold, I'd be rich! I'd beat out Oprah an the Queen for richest woman.

I think you're right that babies just let their emotions out. They just feel it and let it out. That's how we should all be except when babies are doing that, then no one gets any rest. So, it's exhausting. We have to learn how to do that but in a less exhausting way.

I have only cried two times since 1979... I've figured a lot of things out since my ADD diagnosis in 2009, but showing the tough emotions is not one of them.

so I better unwrap them hankies I was about to send you dude!

[BlueInanna]

right, lol, they could try to cry on a schedule, and not during sleeping time. i'm sure there's some alien society somewhere that has a crying hour everyday, like siestas.

[faerie_moon_x]

I think it would be better if men would cry more. I think it's sad that men bottle it all up and all that. Because, it's not healthy to be that way. I mean, you don't have to be like me, but to just let it out.

My sons cry a lot. They two older ones, 10 and 6 years old. When they are actually sad I let them cry but when they are crying because it's time for school I tell them no reason to cry. Just do what you gotta do.

Originally Posted by dark_heart_x

I think it would be better if men would cry more. I think it's sad that men bottle it all up and all that. Because, it's not healthy to be that way. I mean, you don't have to be like me, but to just let it out.

My sons cry a lot. They two older ones, 10 and 6 years old. When they are actually sad I let them cry but when they are crying because it's time for school I tell them no reason to cry. Just do what you gotta do.

it's a shame...thing it's beyond me I'm without the logic skills...

men seem to want to go to war and kill each other...IDIOTS!

just because some unloving never crying MASSIVE idiots told them to...

and the freaking suffering all the poor mums and the sisters and the nieces and the girlfriends and the wives....the grandma's....

unbelievable?!!

just because one or three men went all insane powerful!!

uncrying mofos!

IDIOTS...getting off on others tears not even just completely unfeeling.

men do want to cry...they just ask themselves why?

[faerie_moon_x]

Like my husband, I've never seen him cry, but I think he wants to sometimes, but I don't think he'll admit that. But there have been a few times I saw it lurking, these are really rare times, I can only really think of 2 off the top of my head, in 8 years! And I just wish at that moment he would just let it happen. It's okay. But, he is definately one of those guys that learned somewhere that crying is bad or not okay.

I don't think war is because of not crying. I think there are just some people who see certain people as "not people." They see... a lesser creature than themself. How else can you explain it? They have no compasion for something that they see as insignificant, so they because all powerful, then it causes war.