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Old Jan 12, 2013, 06:23 PM
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What are the differences between? I'm a lil confused. I know promiscuity is commom in bipolar but what about hyper sexuality. How did or do you deal with it. Thanks for any info
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Old Jan 12, 2013, 07:22 PM
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First of all, the whole area is incredibly fishy. Do not expect neat definitions. But in general, you can be hypersexual with one and the same person, while for promiscuity you need a variety of people. Say, I would have sex thrice a day with my soon to be second husband - that is considered hypersexuality but not promiscuity. If someone has infrequent but erratic sex with a wide variety of people, that would be promiscuity without hypersexuality.
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Old Jan 12, 2013, 07:49 PM
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That's what I kind of figured... I seem to struggle with both
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Old Jan 12, 2013, 08:56 PM
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Hypersexuality in general is fine as long as you can still carry on job or school duties or housework or whatever your daytime responsibilities are. Promiscuity increases exposure to the diseases, though this risk can be mitigated by safer sex practices.
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For me I've noticed that when I'm manic I become very hyper sexual and often leads to promiscuity.
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For me I've noticed that when I'm manic I become very hyper sexual and often leads to promiscuity.
That is a typical bipolar response to being manic.
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Old Jan 12, 2013, 09:24 PM
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wonder why? Maybe due to poor impulse control?
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wonder why? Maybe due to poor impulse control?
Bingo...
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I'm only hypo not full on Manic so I love this horniness oh it's fun. I just feel so vibrant it is awesome feeling after a deep depression.
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Old Jan 12, 2013, 09:51 PM
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Blue, great to hear that!

OP, if you want a tad more impulse control, talk to you p-doc about adding 300 g of Lithium.
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Danced my bootie off last night in awesome high heals, my man friend was almost half my height, mid 20's, cute nerdy glasses -- kinkayy haha. Good times. And I'm not regretting it cuz he was safe, sweet not a stranger, very adoring of me, it was so fun. I know I've done unsafe sexual stuff before when hypo, so I'm aware must be safe. It's a fine line.
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Danced my bootie off last night in awesome high heals, my man friend was almost half my height, mid 20's, cute nerdy glasses -- kinkayy haha. Good times. And I'm not regretting it cuz he was safe, sweet not a stranger, very adoring of me, it was so fun. I know I've done unsafe sexual stuff before when hypo, so I'm aware must be safe. It's a fine line.
Oh I can picture you dancing with him!
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I'm only hypo not full on Manic so I love this horniness oh it's fun. I just feel so vibrant it is awesome feeling after a deep depression.
I agree with about the awesome feeling after a deep depression.
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I mean during depression and most other times I feel so horrible about myself. Nobody likes me and blab blab but when I have that feeling that blueinnana said I feel so awesome about myself its unreal
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Old Jan 13, 2013, 02:25 PM
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How does one handle this?
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How does one handle this?
Depression or good feelings that come afterwards?
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Old Jan 13, 2013, 03:03 PM
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Both of them I struggle more with the feelings.afterwards though
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BpinOk I personally think u should enjoy it and sex is so fun I just love it! Got to be careful so that u don't cheat if ur married or be with risky person for disease or someone abusive. I made a lot of mistakes, the worst was a man who was way too rough and left bruises on me. I felt like a victim of myself, cuz i put myself in that situation when i knew better, that sucked.
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That's the issue I am married
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That's the issue I am married
Ok so will she have sex with you? Are you bored, insecure, what's the problem?
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Old Jan 13, 2013, 03:58 PM
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Yeah she will but when my mind starts to wonder bad things happen...
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So do u miss the variety with different women? Don't tell her that lol. What can u do to spice up and stay monogamous?
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Hyper sexuality can mean masturbation too
Promiscuity is going out for sex with more than one person.

I'm hyper sexual right now on a hypo.

I'm aware of the dangers but haven't been in the past. I can control my impulses these days about thinking back to the horrible experiences I've endured and don't want that again. So masturbation is my vice when I'm like this lol. Can't hurt myself or anyone else xx
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Old Jan 13, 2013, 07:15 PM
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Hyper sexuality can mean masturbation too
Promiscuity is going out for sex with more than one person.

I'm hyper sexual right now on a hypo.

I'm aware of the dangers but haven't been in the past. I can control my impulses these days about thinking back to the horrible experiences I've endured and don't want that again. So masturbation is my vice when I'm like this lol. Can't hurt myself or anyone else xx
Nope to the bold part. Let us see what the web says: "indulging in promiscuous (casual and indiscriminate) sexual relations." from Princeton dictionary. So the criterion is not the number of partners but the lack of judgment, hence the word "indiscriminate" to describe it.
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