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Feb 07, 2013, 12:38 PM
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I was finally feeling more like a human being and less like a bipolar person. I got back on track with getting back to work. I have been faithfully taking medication. I had my first real week of good feelings. And then she came.
A friend that continuously points the finger at me and tells me where I have fallen short. She expects me to dote on her like a high school friend would. and has no respect that this was the toughest patch in my life. She took my good day and made it a bad one. I never get things right. I am the reason everything falls apart. I am the monster that doesnt change what needs to be changed for her to be happy. I am the monster. 
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 32 year old married woman from Madison, WI Living with Bipolar II with Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD Traits,Generalized Anxiety Disorder Tim Burton Fan, Zombie Fan, Music Fan, Movie Addict  |
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#2
Feb 07, 2013, 02:05 PM
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well just dump her .... i always give this advice here but i mean it... if anyone is hurting you,just dump that person and move on...
and monster... like shrek  everybody loves shrek 
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I am lost in my own mind !  Hypo-mania and Depression are alike a Knife of Dreams !  Dx - Bipolar II  I'm not feeling well ... I got pain !!! Effie, We all got pain !!!!! 
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Feb 07, 2013, 03:48 PM
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No, she is the monster, I think. Toxic person. Don't let her twist you around because she is not your friend, she's a vampire wanting you to feed her. I say drop her, block her from contacting you. And don't feel bad about it. I have had to do that before, myself.
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Feb 07, 2013, 05:05 PM
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Avoid this person with all your might.
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- Purple Daisy - Bipolar II * Rapid-Cycling 46. Female. Midwest USA. Just returned to treatment in July 2012 after being out of treatment since 1994. First diagnosed at age 21. Writer stuck in a cubicle by day. |
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#5
Feb 08, 2013, 02:49 PM
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Thank you everyone for your advice. She met the curb this morning. Not a tear shead and feeling 1548491% relieved. She said I didnt count her in to let her help me. When I told her anything she would always use it to hurt me. Its a chapter of my life that is now officially over
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32 year old married woman from Madison, WI Living with Bipolar II with Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD Traits,Generalized Anxiety Disorder Tim Burton Fan, Zombie Fan, Music Fan, Movie Addict |
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Feb 08, 2013, 03:13 PM
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That had to be tough. drawing that circle around you of what you allow and won't allow from the people in your life. Good job
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Feb 08, 2013, 03:18 PM
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Yes there are people who hurt more than help and don't realize it, or pretend not to. It is better to have no friends than toxic ones, I think.
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Feb 08, 2013, 03:23 PM
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Good for you !!!
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