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Old Mar 02, 2013, 09:22 AM
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*insert swearword* because my entire post dissafknpeared!!!

Ok now that I have the cussing out the way, I've missed you guys! Sorry I've been so quiet, had quite a bit going on...

Work has been working on my last nerve! I thought it impossible to repeat high school, but here I am... was given a BS written warning, which I appealed with HR, and now the manager is gunning for me, because HR agreed its a BS warning and shred it.

I have a killer bladder infection, which according to doc explains why I'm so freaking fatigued all the damn time! Silly doc wanted me to live on bread and bananas.... pssssshhh no can do, however I have listened and abstained from dairy.

Gary (brother) and ex SIL had a huge argument about our nephew who thinks its fun to have screaming fits from 6am till bedtime. Yes ladies and gents from the horses mouth "BUT I LIKE IT!" w.....t.....f?
Anyway then she said she was leaving soon but not before she told on my brother to her ex, because she doesnt feel safe here

So her ex husband (my disowned older brother for those who are confused) tried to get into it with Gary via text! Gosh I love my brother, he just replied "Cool story bro"

Also ex and I have decided to give it another go Neither wants to be apart from the other, so we are busy negotiating middle ground... Also I have got him to agree on a safe word. Should I go cray-cray and lack the necessary insight to notice, he should use the safe word. Which means I back off, go rediscover my equilibrium, while he breaths and thanks God he derailed the verbal assault. Sounds silly and over the top, seeing as though there are no whips and chains involved at this time, buuut its better than him running and hiding because of the venom I spewed.... Also, might I add, that these negotiations have been taking place while we are still upholding our 'platonic deal'. idk why but its important I mention it, I guess its because for once we're not skipping important steps

ok I think I covered it.... wait 1 more thing.

Jordan and I took part in this year's CANSA Shavathon. And while we weren't brave enough to donate money AND hair, we did let them spray our hair silly colours!

Ok. thats that then.
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Old Mar 02, 2013, 02:05 PM
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Yay! Thank you for this update!
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Old Mar 02, 2013, 02:55 PM
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Well, now, things are looking up! The woman is leaving, you've taken the lead in
the work place with reporting abusive behavior, and your x is beginning to realize that he really does love you and Jordan.

Maybe you won't miss the aroma of his after-shave lotion too much longer!

Take care, Trippin, and be cool.
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 01:01 AM
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Thanks guys
I wish she were gone already though
Wow gen, I didnt even think of my manager as a bully but you're right.
As usual
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 02:02 AM
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Enjoy every single Great moment.. the bad? eh be a duck let it roll off
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 02:15 AM
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Enjoy every single Great moment.. the bad? eh be a duck let it roll off
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That's the general idea I'm going for
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 07:18 AM
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Exhaustion is no fun. Had to skip joining Jordan at the beach because my limbs feel like they're made of led,and its hard to stay awake for long stretches of time

Oh well. Its minor stuffs
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 07:34 AM
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Be careful, Trippin. Maybe you need to check with your general practitioner to see
what's going on with your legs. May be minor, maybe not. But if it continues, I'd
see him soon.
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 07:45 AM
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Be careful, Trippin. Maybe you need to check with your general practitioner to see
what's going on with your legs. May be minor, maybe not. But if it continues, I'd
see him soon.
I just feel super heavy, wayyyy too heavy to move much! Which is ironic seeing as though I weigh very little...
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 07:50 AM
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Could be the stress at the job combined with the frustration of having the woman still in the home, but be careful and check with your doctor if it doesn't get better soon.

Thinkin' about you today and hoping things improve strongly by the afternoon.
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 09:44 AM
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Thanks gen, will wait until I finish the antibiotics.
If I still feel like the walking dead, I'll go back to the gp....
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Old Mar 03, 2013, 01:50 PM
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Oh, I missed that you were on antibiotics. No wonder you feel as if you've been stopped in your tracks. Get some rest, Trippin.

Hope you're better soon.
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Old Mar 04, 2013, 06:04 PM
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GOOD NEWS!
Its 1am and I am wide awake

Didn't fall asleep at my desk, wasn't tired when I got home, and don't care that my alarm goes off in 3 and a half hours

I'm back to normal! No more tired leaden wishing for coma body!

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Old Mar 04, 2013, 10:35 PM
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5:30am in the bus and DAMN I'm doing great for a chick who had 1hrs sleep!

Whoop Whoop!
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Old Mar 05, 2013, 12:21 AM
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You are my hero Wonder Woman! Hope the day goes well!!
And get some good sleep tonight!

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Old Mar 05, 2013, 12:28 AM
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You are my hero Wonder Woman! Hope the day goes well!!
And get some good sleep tonight!
Thank you fans thank you fans

Lol I slept wayyy too much last week.

Maybe next Thursday, ok? LMAO
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Hope that means this coming Thursday lol
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Old Mar 05, 2013, 12:44 AM
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Hope that means this coming Thursday lol
Hell noOoOoZ NO fricken way!!
Life's way to good to spend it sleeping.
Besides mommy always says: "There's no rest for the wicked"
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Old Mar 05, 2013, 12:53 AM
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What time is it for you, are you still at work? I'm typing thru my phone, can't be bothered to check the clock thing, although I do have South Africa as one of my settings. almost 10pm for me and I'm enjoying relaxing outside under the stars before I go in for a couple more hours work.
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Old Mar 05, 2013, 04:55 AM
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It was 8am when you asked....

My days are super lonnnng!!!!

Only noon and I'm ready to run. Manager is gunning for me again, bout being off sick last week. She's trying to bully me again, doesnt want to pay me me for sick days.... I ended up crying....

Well Now she can just go hmph herself!

I dont give a ratsass what she says or does anymore!
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It was 8am when you asked....

My days are super lonnnng!!!!

Only noon and I'm ready to run. Manager is gunning for me again, bout being off sick last week. She's trying to bully me again, doesnt want to pay me me for sick days.... I ended up crying....

Well Now she can just go hmph herself!

I dont give a ratsass what she says or does anymore!
righto!!

ask this beeatch if she ever been sick??

and if not!

then she is about to become really freaking sick!

...morons in the competitive world...

they think?

haha!!

and this is the crazy bit!

they think they are the well ones!?

Lia...you have the right from all that is perfectly right!

"to say that you are sicker than I am if you don't give me a freaking break!!"

sick assholes!

wish I was there for you....
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Old Mar 05, 2013, 05:08 AM
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thanks for the update.

and don't worry about being quiet- i've not exactly been on either

really bad anxiety friday, overdose saturday, sunday was just... well i don't remember any of the time i was awake, yesterday i was recovering, and today i thought i'd pop in for a little while to try for my 10 posts at least- maybe a little more.

if i can get back to 10 posts a day- that would be good
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Old Mar 05, 2013, 02:03 PM
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thanks for the update.

and don't worry about being quiet- i've not exactly been on either

really bad anxiety friday, overdose saturday, sunday was just... well i don't remember any of the time i was awake, yesterday i was recovering, and today i thought i'd pop in for a little while to try for my 10 posts at least- maybe a little more.

if i can get back to 10 posts a day- that would be good
Is the OD completely taken care of, just in two days?
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Old Mar 05, 2013, 04:55 PM
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I hate when managers get on you for legitimately being sick. Last year I almost died and the HR manager at my work was acting like I was faking it.... I was in the hospital for 2 weeks! They almost made me stay longer. Hosptials don't normally do that... they kick you out if you're not that sick.
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