[sprik]

my ex and I have a horrible relationship, we have 6 kids together, he is always out to backstap me, the last 3 years have been been hell, he is my trigger, he makes my brain and thinking crazy, i always fighting and talking in my head becuase of him, he treats my children so bad. There has been 3 CPS reports. His girlfriend is just as bad as him. I constantly go to my atty, and get the same crap, u have to cooperate, how do u cooperate with someone who just wants to hurt u. We share legal, he thinks he is soul legal. Today for instant, he got a hold of my 9 yr old teacher last week wanting to hold him back because of his adhd. FIRST OF ALL IT HIS COMPLETE FAULT THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO TAKE HIS MEDS IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!!!! Anyways he texts me yesterday states we have appt with teacher, I know better, I was at field day, i make arrangements to talk to teacher, she tells me this. This is a legal decision. We come to the appt with teacher he said!!!! I get there, the teacher is there, the social worker is there, the principal is there, he was hoping that i would there not knowing anything and all three of them would agree with him to hold back my 9 yr old, and I would have no choice but go along with it, They said no hahahahah. I told him we needed to try to encourage my 9 yr old to take his meds, next thing i know he threw out his hand my way, raise his voice and says i dont care what she has to say, im thinking of my son here blah blah blah. remember i have 50/50 legal custody I was furious and shocked. he did that . Going to friend of court monday file coomplaint of course. Just feeling so alone, he is constantly causing this kind of trouble, Im so worn down. Im trying to fight only the battles i need to, but they never stop. My brain never shuts up, I was doing so good, now I cant stop, i dont want to fall back into depression back on my couch again for another 3 yrs. I dont want to let him control my life again, does anyone understand, has anyone been here? I really need a friend to talk to no one understand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im all alone

[bipolarOne79]

Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. My ex wife has tried to eliminate me from my daughters life and get my visitations taken away all because she is mad about our divorce. It has been about 7 years since I have been separated and I still have issues. I feel like I'm always fighting a battle with her and I just can't handle all the stress. Hopefully things will get better for you and your children. PM me any time
John

[winkynjr]

(((sprik)))) I am so sorry you are having to go through this!!!! Unfortunately I cannot relate to my ex not leaving me alone because most of the time (which is a good thing for me) we do not hear from him except every 2 weeks when he pays me child support! and then if I did not text him to remind him well I probably would not see him!! I am sorry that I have not been around the last day or two but you have got to keep fighting and not allow him to win!!! I check to see if you are on most evenings and I check my PM's all the time!!!

[sprik]

thank u, i will post u winky