[faerie_moon_x]

My paranoia is too strong. I had to take this down. They are watching me. I feel them watching me. They are wathing and they will use this all against me and everything will be destroyed. I can't fight them off. They are too strong.

[Nessa213]

I'm sorry that you're being treated this way, and to be honest I'm a little bit stunned by some (ok most) of his responses.

Starting therapy might be exactly the right thing to "prove" to him that there is a legitimate issue. I know that paranoia feeling very well and it's an absolutely terrible feeling to feel it at ALL and it's even worse to get made fun of for it.

One of my pet peeves is becoming when people refer to those without any mental illness as being "normal". That just... grinds my gears... grates my corn... steams my clams... whatever phrase you wish to use. Because in NO way is it "normal" to put down someone like that, much less a spouse. I'm so sorry that you're being treated like that.

[Confusedinomicon]

What do you mean by skype and text? I thought you guys lived in the same house? Do you guys sleep in the same bed?

If he is having problems admitting his own problems, he is probably in denial...which means he'll be in denial of your problems, too. Also, its unfair that he expects you to pay all the bills, take care of the children and work to sustain his lifestyle. It sounds like he is severely addicted to the internet/technology if your main correspondence isn't in person and you're in the vicinity of one another.

I'm sorry you have to go through this, Moonie. (Is this okay?)
I'm going to stop calling you DH.

[vjdragonfly]

I am at a loss at how to re-act without saying something offensive. You don't deserve to be treated that way. You need someone to hold your hand and lift you up, not kick you when your down. I can understand not knowing what to do in the situation, but . . . :X

I hope therapy will help and somehow you are able to reach your husband. It is so tragic . . .

[faerie_moon_x]

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[vjdragonfly]

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by dark_heart_x

If I want him to spend less time with his friends, then I don't want him to have a social life. To all you married folks here, how many days a week is acceptable time with your friends away from your spouse? 1 day? 2 days? 3 days? 4 maybe? Or is it 7 days? Because for him it is 7 days, and on those days for more than 6 hours every day. I am not to make friends with these people myself, even though they supposedly say I am nice. He wants me completely separate from them. I am not included or invited. Can you see maybe WHY I am paranoid that they are all talking about me and putting me down and making fun of me behind my back???

Yes, of course we can see that.

[Trippin2.0]

PM me if you feel safe enough to do so sis.

I love you