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Old Aug 24, 2013, 01:48 PM
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UPDATE!! I did tell my parents. My mom was suspicious and she instantly said "I knew it" My dad of course got really mad and he said "I am firing him and he is never allowed in my house or on my jobs" I convinced my dad though to not be irrational cause I made the point that if he's a good worker then just keep him for jobs just meet him somewhere else or just have him for work, cause he is mentally unstable. Well my dad just said "Maybe I will use him for jobs, but he is definitely not coming around here" So when my dad calmed down, my dad said that he is just gonna use him for work, and he is not having him around me, and if he says or does anything wrong one more time, my dad will just fire him. So that's the compromise with him. Which is cool, but something else happened. My dad was suppose to go to a job with Sam and last night Sam posted on his Facebook that he was working tomorrow. My dad told my mom to tell him that he doesn't need him tomorrow, cause the homeowner is going to labor, because the homeowner wants the price deducted, so the homeowner said he would do it if m dad deducts the labor price.

So, my mom told Sam that and Sam got really really mad. He said so many things. He said "That's the last straw that I;m working for Bob, he is a asshole" "Good luck to you all, I am NEVER working for Bob again" He even private messaged my mom and said "I have hurt feelings" "I thought Bob was my friend, and I don't understand why he is doing this to me" "He knows I have a child to feed, and he does this?" "I am extremely hurt, and I hope he**** dies!" "He's a piece of ****, he just wanted to save $130!" He also texted my brother and said "Your dad is a horrible person, and I hate him, I am hurt I thought me and Bob were friends, and I thought he was a good boss to me." It's not like my dad said he will never use him again, he is so messed up! He doesn't understand that my dad is not cut throating him, it's the homeowner. My dad even said I want you to work on Monday and Tuesday, it's just he didn't need him that day and he flipped out! He got really vicious, so my dad is not talking to him therefore he is fired, but not under my circumstances it was under my dad, but I don't understand he thinks my dad maliciously didn't want to use him for the job. Ok, my dad is really sitting there thinking "How can I screw Sam over?" Get real dude! My dad is a good person! Like he has this obsession with my dad, cause he would even say weird things like "I am the oldest child So I control the radio" And he even said one time "I am your new son Bob, be nice to me." He was laughing when he said that, but still. He lost his dad to Cancer 2 years ago, and his Dad was a alcoholic so he was verbally and mentally abusive to him, and I think he clung to my dad cause my dad is a good dad that doesn't do drugs or drink and my mom is the same way. He sees that my dad loves his family, and is always taking care of us. Now he absolutely hates him and wishes he dies. I am so disgusted and I feel stupid. Thanks so much everyone! Thanks for your posts!

Oh and surprisingly he didn't call or text me about it! I wonder why he is just lashing out at my brother, mom, and dad, and my brother was out and knew nothing about it, my brother wasn't even involved on Facebook about it, he just kinda plucked him out and started talkin some smack on my dad and say how much of a bad person he is. I was waiting for my wrath from him, but yeah surprisingly he didn't call or text me. Yay!

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Old Aug 24, 2013, 03:04 PM
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This is seriously not bipolar issues and I encourge your family to cut all ties before Sam gets violent. Best thing for your dad is refer him to a larger company for full time work so Sam can provide for his family.
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Old Aug 24, 2013, 05:27 PM
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This is seriously not bipolar issues and I encourge your family to cut all ties before Sam gets violent. Best thing for your dad is refer him to a larger company for full time work so Sam can provide for his family.
Yes I agree! But I do realize that now that this has nothing to do with Bipolar, but I am just giving a update cause on my previous post I was confused whether or not Sam's behavior was associated with Bipolar Disorder. It's just a update, but thank you for answering!
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