[HALLIEBETH87]

There once was a girl I was best friends with! We told each other everything and I loved her like a sister. We did everything together. But as time went on I couldn't be her friend anymore. I couldn't handle her explosive anger and unfair outbursts. She has issues that need addressing. Im serious. I think she has BPD. For real. I broke off the friendship. Ask anyone who knows me!!!

I went into the coffee shop she works at the other (I started going there WAY before her and even took her there first). I am friends with the guy who works there and he doesn't like her either. Well......they didn't have a lot of lids for coffee cups out and I said hey you need some more lids. I didn't mean anything by it and I said it very nicely. Seriously. She proceeded to go into the back of the store for a long time.

I go to the shop this morning and my friend Kevin tell me she was talking about me back there while I was there. She was mad at me about the dang lids.Really? That's so dumb! She made it sound like she cut the friendship off and proceeded to tell him everything personal about me-my issues with cutting, bipolar and overdosing twice last yr.

I'VE BEEN BETRAYED!

Who does this? Shes supposed to be a Christian. I am and I don't act like this. I know a TON ofdirt on her and I wouldn't do that to her because its petty.

Im hurt that even someone who isn't my friend but claims to be a Christina would act like this.

Petty. Petty. Petty.

[r010159]

Mindlessness and the ensuing mayhem. Do not let that mayhem pull you in!

[Lobster Hands]

People are weird Halliebeth.

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[Capriciousness]

Ewww and awful. I am so sorry. That is the worst to tell people things and have he thrown back like that...it makes you feel like they totally devalued everything.

She sounds like a ****** ****** person. I think you can feel very glad that you know her tyre colors and are not in a friendship with her anymore.

And I don't know if you are doing this or not but don't beat yourself up about sharing with her in the first place. It is courageous and healthy for us to share. If a person turns out to be a valueless virtue less creep that has nothing to do with us.

[HALLIEBETH87]

I saw my T tpday and I am not sure she has seen me cry, yell and cuss all at once.

[HALLIEBETH87]

Itd be almost different if this wasn't the first time but it is the 3rd time this has happened. Someone betraying me with my secrets.

Why are people so hateful? Id give anything to change who I am. I don't want to be this way.

[swheaton]

There are way too many hateful people. Go to that shop and smile every time you see her.

[littlemiss44]

Don't put yr self down because of her! She isn't worth it. Believe in yr self. That was so mean spirited and she had no right to share yr private stuff. She is so ******...she spends her time putting down the person who was her best friend? Geez she sure doesn't ask like a Christian! You know you are better than that. She's making herself look like an idiot because she is talking about yr personal life. People who hear it must know how crude and mean she is to share stuff that is so very personal. I'm so sorry hun. Keep yr head held high abd know that you are better than that! Hugs

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[Standup2me]

Agree with Little, people stay away, and don't trust people like her.

[HALLIEBETH87]

ive calmed down now....

[Standup2me]

Calm is good

Just don't forget what she did

Do not trust her

[HALLIEBETH87]

I haven't trusted her in a LONG time!

[Standup2me]

I also agree with Swh. Go there and smile

If she thinks that she has upset you, then she wins.

[HALLIEBETH87]

ok

one bit of news im glad she doesn't know...I got approved for disability today.

[outlaw sammy]

Originally Posted by HALLIEBETH87

ive calmed down now....

Let me throw in my two cents please: I too have an ex-friend who suffers with borderline personality disorder (I have BP1). One day, after I told him that our friendship is over (because of his BPD psychotic temper-tantrums), he called the police on me claiming that I was "harassing" him. A few weeks later, he apologized to me, but it changed nothing. I can't afford to have anyone in my inner circle who would betray me - even if it's a minor betrayal. We can prepare for just about anything - but no one can prepare for an unexpected betrayal.

[HALLIEBETH87]

I wont and cannot forgive her for this!