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Aug 11, 2014, 06:05 PM
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This just burns me up... tell me if I'm stupid or rediculois please... I'm open to discussion on the matter..
First off.. cats out of the bag. Me and my wife have not had sex in 10 months... she's 29 I'm 32... ok not happy about that... but that's a whole other issue in itself.... my issue today is both kids are in the bathroom where the stand up shower is and are asking their mommy.. my wife obviously where something is... as soon as I even get by the door and I'm talking to the kids.telling them to shut the door... I glance and see my wife who was."openly" talking to the kids suddenly turn her shoulder and.cover herself. ... this really sets me off....... fyi. Kids both girls.. 6 and under... anyway... pissed...upset....blah
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Aug 11, 2014, 06:18 PM
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Are you saying that you are not comfortable with family nudity? I am not asking this is a snarky way. I am honestly just trying to understand where you are coming from. Do you feel like her nudity should be reserved for you?
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Aug 11, 2014, 06:20 PM
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Lol no. I'm saying my wife is ten times more comfortable naked.in front of our kids.. then when I walk in she covers herself like she's dead if I catch a glimpse
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Aug 11, 2014, 06:30 PM
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Yeah that sucks. Wonder what happened between the happy wedding day and now to have made the change... usually it's years worth of stuff piled up. I'm sorry you're facing this, its frustrating and and disappointing.
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Aug 11, 2014, 06:38 PM
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Was just curious if I was being stupid.. some days I wish I could just get in my car and chase the sunset......
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Aug 11, 2014, 06:49 PM
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Aug 11, 2014, 06:52 PM
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I got way too much here to just walk away. .. some days I want to fight some days I just want to walk.....
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Aug 11, 2014, 06:52 PM
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My H and I are not on the same page sexually and it is very frustrating but we are working through it .... slowly.
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Aug 11, 2014, 06:56 PM
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I would be hurt too. Has something happened to her? Did someone touch her that you dont know about? Makes me wonder since their has been no sex and she doesnt want you to see her naked.
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Aug 11, 2014, 09:31 PM
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You're not stupid for feeling frustrated. And she has a reason/s for not being vulnerable with you. The reason/s probably have to do with how she's feeling about you. I hope the two of you are in, or are planning to be in, couples therapy.
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Aug 11, 2014, 09:49 PM
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I can sympathize with you, Loophole.
My partner struggles with me seeing her naked. I told her how I feel about it, but at the same time respected her for her feelings. She's slowly working on it, which I respect. And I have tried to give her some space to deal with it on her own...
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