[butterflypower]

I'm not the type of person that likes to hang out with people.

I'm a bridesmaid (not willingly) for my boyfriend's brother's wedding, and she's a bit dramatic. I don't participate in her parties because I don't know any of her friends. She was upset that I didn't go to her parties, and I try to explain that I'm not a sociable person but she didn't care. She's like "That's how you make friends". I'm not social at all. It makes me panic. I just got back on my medicine. I went to her bachorette party last weekend, and I felt like an outcast. All of her friends were snobs and over 21, so they did a lot of drinking. No one spoke to me. I felt like I didn't belong there at all. She just text me asking if I was getting my nails done. I'm scared to tell her that I'm not because she can be a real b-word.

[wildflowerchild25]

I totally get what you mean. I'm not social either and have no real interest in "making friends". I avoid parties if I don't know anyone too.

I'm sorry you had a bad time at the party. Sometimes you're just not compatible with people. Is she going to be really pissed if you don't get your nails done with her? I mean if she's requiring it (some brides are so controlling!) you can go on your own...

I hope you find a way to survive the next few weeks until the wedding! Just think, after that you won't have to deal with her on a close basis anymore!

[butterflypower]

The wedding is Saturday.

I told her I didn't feel good and she said to feel better, but deep down I know that she's complaining to her friends. She's pretty controlling.

They have only been dating for 10 months and they're jumping into marriage! She's also pregnant! They borrowed money from me for a house that they're not living in yet. I have a feeling they're going to divorce. She likes everything to be perfect. A big control freak!

I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we haven't really found a time to get married because he's a senior in high school.