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Apr 11, 2015, 03:25 PM
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I don't know. Just had old 'friends' stop by. Friends that both put me in a very very bad situation. Two people, two different scenes. Two different situations. Who knows if they even knew about the other... But I know about the both of them.
I handled it good. I hate small talk but managed well. Ha.... If I have racing thoughts about this later.... Sometimes I just have to tell myself not to give an eff what people will talk about. Not give an eff what others think. I'll be telling myself this until the shock of having to interact with them wears off. |
 Anonymous200325, Anonymous45023, Anonymous48690, Victoria'smom
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Apr 11, 2015, 09:04 PM
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I just read an article a 90 year old wrote on life lessons. It has already helped me. One that stands out to me is " what other people think of you is none of your business". I really like that quote and the whole article is good. It is hard to accept at first but I love it now. It made me realize I really don't care what other people think of me. I accept people for who they are and people can accept me for me. If they don't like me, oh well.
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Apr 12, 2015, 12:28 PM
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Yeah, I don't care for them. I just try too get over the fact people will still talk about what happened even though it is none of their business.
It's a trigger for me because it was just terrible but it's been almost 3years and when I see certain people, I still think of everything. They defiantly don't matter though. |
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Apr 12, 2015, 12:47 PM
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Best attitude to have I reckon. People will talk about you, pass judgement on something that they know nothing about.
Let them talk. I'll be who I want to be.
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Bipolar type II, GAD "Even through the darkest days this fire burns, always." |
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Apr 12, 2015, 10:25 PM
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Yes Soran0m.
I am happy today with my family only because I didn't allow the situation to cloud my judgement. Nor did I allow others opinion persuade me. it's tough sometimes but I always tell people, don't listen to what others say, find the answer in your heart then stick to it. |
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Apr 12, 2015, 10:34 PM
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My best saying has been "Screw everybody". Lol. I know it's harsh, but really, who are they to judge? We are winners. We deal with more crap then they can even think they imagine. Walk a minute in my shoes....
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Apr 12, 2015, 11:02 PM
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I tell myself that all the time. Screw everybody. Sometimes it's the only thing that gets me through the day.
These people... They don't even deserve a single thought of mine. I was nice though. |
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