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Jul 13, 2015, 01:13 PM
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I made a post on this topic in the Careers forum, however I wanted to also post here since you have been so helpful to me
 It is a little bit long, however I truly appreciate any feedback! http://forums.psychcentral.com/work-...i-stay-go.html
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 Dx: BP 2 &/or BPD Rx: Lamictal 100mg “There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go.” ― Richard Bach |
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Jul 14, 2015, 01:34 AM
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I'll admit I've had to do a very quick read through it (multitasking dinner
 ) ... like the way you've put a number of pros / cons for the different scenarios there - helps to make an informed decision Hope you find the best path forward for you
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Jul 14, 2015, 04:11 PM
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I always found that its best to follow your heart. Any decision you make is going to be the right one, if its the best one for you.
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Jul 15, 2015, 09:05 AM
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Thank you! I am still transitioning so much, and there is no perfect job without stress- which I understand. I think the dynamics of family biz are what I am pretty used to/acclimated to but as I go through new changes, (which I haven't felt comfortable sharing w/ my parents, just 1 of my sisters know), I am seeing more resentment building in personal ways...
Its hard to stay focused when my mom is home during the summer mo's. She is very needy and never takes NO for answer. She pulls me away from work, asking me to go to store, or pick up something together, shop etc. She seems to boss us all around in her way, even though she is not overly mean about it. I always feel bad, and dont know how to say NO to her at all. She is tricky and full of her own issues. I feel so stressed lately when she asks me to do thing w/ her, like almost used, or like a kid. I dont know what to do or who to talk to. It might not seem like a big deal, but at 34yo, I pretty much deserve more respect then that. She is like a child too. And bored now that it is summer so planning all these things... I feel really confused how to handle that part. Otherwise, the job is great. I can handle occasional passive aggressive side of my Dad, I can even handle my mom just for summer since she goes away allot. I just dont know how am I supposed to handle her managing me and my time as if she 'owns' me. I hate not having a voice .... (sorry for the vent, as this just happened again, today)
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Dx: BP 2 &/or BPD Rx: Lamictal 100mg “There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go.” ― Richard Bach |
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