[Wander]

Since I was in a lot of danger last week while in hospital (unlocked ward) my psychiatrist wants to meet with my parents to discuss with them ways of keeping me safe when discharged. While I appreciate my psych's proactive approach to may treatment I am terrified of my parents knowing just how bad I have been (even though they are not stupid and have probably worked that one out). I am very nervous about the appointment which is tomorrow. I hate upsetting my parents and I know this will make them sad. ON the other hand it may allow me to be more open with them about my illness. I have been protecting them since I was a child due to the fact that I had to hide severe abuse from them with the threat of death if I told. So, I guess this is hitting a nerve. Not sure why I posted this but it does help calm me a bit. Please wish me well.

Oh, and btw I am 40 years old

[Crazy Hitch]

Are your parents your primary carers when you are discharged? Filling them in on a safety plan could help you a lot then if they are.

[Wander]

Yes, they are very supportive althouht I don't live with them.i try to be independent so perhaps this is hurting. My parents are great. This is hurting my pride to need help.

[BastetsMuse]

Shoot for the openess and concentrate on that, on being able to be honest with your parents about your situation. Imagine the relief of honesty! I hope your parents handle things well and that this appointment goes well for you.

[cashart10]

I'm so sorry that you are having such a rough time. You've been on my mind.

My therapist called for a family meeting also. It was very helpful for everyone except my asshole husband. I was so glad we did it. It gave my family resources and insight into my world. It helped them to better help me. I think this is a wonderful step for you!

You deserve all the support you can get and I'm glad you have that with your treatment team and parents. You are beautiful inside and out. All of my love!

[Wander]

Originally Posted by cashart10

I'm so sorry that you are having such a rough time. You've been on my mind.

My therapist called for a family meeting also. It was very helpful for everyone except my asshole husband. I was so glad we did it. It gave my family resources and insight into my world. It helped them to better help me. I think this is a wonderful step for you!

You deserve all the support you can get and I'm glad you have that with your treatment team and parents. You are beautiful inside and out. All of my love!

Thanks so much, especially since you are in such a difficult position too. I am a anxious mess this morning about the meeting which is in 5 hours.Trying to think logically and know that it will be helpful to all but I, for some reason, am afraid I am going to get told off.My parents and doctor are all very supportive so i should be fine, or so I keep telling myself. I just feel so exposed. A feeling I hate

[BipolaRNurse]

How did the meeting go?

[Wander]

The meeting went great. My doctor helped explain Bipolar and PTSD to my parents and how they can best help me. My parents were very interested and open. Couldn't have asked for it to go better. Still I'm agitated but at least I feel less stressed. Thanks for asking.

[MusicLover82]

Originally Posted by Wander

Since I was in a lot of danger last week while in hospital (unlocked ward) my psychiatrist wants to meet with my parents to discuss with them ways of keeping me safe when discharged. While I appreciate my psych's proactive approach to may treatment I am terrified of my parents knowing just how bad I have been (even though they are not stupid and have probably worked that one out). I am very nervous about the appointment which is tomorrow. I hate upsetting my parents and I know this will make them sad. ON the other hand it may allow me to be more open with them about my illness. I have been protecting them since I was a child due to the fact that I had to hide severe abuse from them with the threat of death if I told. So, I guess this is hitting a nerve. Not sure why I posted this but it does help calm me a bit. Please wish me well.

Oh, and btw I am 40 years old

We had a family meeting with my boyfriend at the time (now he's my husband) and my parents when I was in IP. I think it made everyone feel more "in control" of my illness by knowing what to do if it gets out of control again. I'm sure it will go just fine and you will feel much better after it is done. I'm sure your parents love you very much and you will feel good about the meeting.

[MusicLover82]

Originally Posted by MusicLover82

We had a family meeting with my boyfriend at the time (now he's my husband) and my parents when I was in IP. I think it made everyone feel more "in control" of my illness by knowing what to do if it gets out of control again. I'm sure it will go just fine and you will feel much better after it is done. I'm sure your parents love you very much and you will feel good about the meeting.

Sorry, I didn't see that you already had the meeting! Yay! I'm glad it went well.