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#1
Jun 20, 2016, 02:47 PM
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Hello All,
I'm in the habit of quitting everything. School, Army, religion, work, parenthood and marriage. To the point my wife calls me "The Quitter". It's a title I've earned making terrible sacrifices. Not in the mood to reliquish it now. Last week I "moved" to my favorite room in the house. I have my guns, my knives and my bizarre art in there. Also a normal bathroom with normal height. I spent two days accomodating my humble stuff to make it comfortable for habitation. It's opposite to the master, so I can crank the stereo to my heart's content, without being reprimended. Went out of town, and when I came back, everything was back in the master. Only everything was out of proper order. I think this is usurpation(sp) of privacy and total disregard for my wishes. Are this grounds for divorce?. Long separation maybe?. I'm I being tortured?. Futhermore, shall I move "a little farther"?. You tell me. All I need is a little encouragement to quit yet again.
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]Roses are red. Violets are blue.[ Look for the positive in the negative. PIRILON. If lemons fall from the sky, make lemonade. Unknown. Nothing stronger than habit. Victor Hugo. You are the slave of what you say, and the master of what you keep. Unknown. |
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#2
Jun 20, 2016, 02:52 PM
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Marriage is hard work! Was it cool that she moved your stuff back while you were gone, no it wasn't! Before you decided to move your stuff did you talk with her and discuss it? Communication is so important. So, are you moved in the sense that you are no longer sharing a room with her and you are just her roommate? If that is the case, that's not cool either. It sounds like you guys have some talking to do.
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#3
Jun 20, 2016, 02:52 PM
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I don't know any of the backstory of you moving to separate room but I think your stuff having been moved while you were gone definitely warrants a serious conversation.
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Bipolar I Borderline Personality Disorder ADHD Generalized Anxiety Disorder "You," he said, "are a terribly real thing in a terribly false world, and that, I believe, is why you are in so much pain.” ― Emilie Autumn, The Asylum for Wayward Victorian Girls |
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#4
Jun 20, 2016, 02:56 PM
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lol. She moved it all back? Sorry, but that's hilarious. Sounds like something my mom would do.
But anyway, it sounds like you two aren't understanding each other. You two need to have a long conversation about it. |
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#5
Jun 20, 2016, 03:02 PM
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Maybe you could demand payment for staying and stick around. Sure you'd be kinda prostituting yourself, but you can use the money to buy more knives and maybe even a soft squishy seat for your cool normal height toilet.
On a serious note, I'm sorry about your reverse eviction. I think you should stay, but I'm still suffering trauma from the Aniston/Pitt breakup. I'm sensitive to breakups so please, for my sake, stay -signed a fellow quitter |
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#6
Jun 20, 2016, 03:14 PM
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Since I quit my marriage 5 years in I can't give advice here...but my .02 is to talk.
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Jun 20, 2016, 03:24 PM
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Have to agree with the others so far, time to have a conversation
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Jun 20, 2016, 07:41 PM
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I decided to ignore the situation. I'm tired from the trip, she's tired from work.
I'll sleep in the ridiculous big bed, since mine has no sheets or pillowcases. Tomorrow will be moving day again. Unless she changes my mind tonight. Thank you all for your concern. Life goes on. Long after the thrill of living is gone.
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]Roses are red. Violets are blue.[ Look for the positive in the negative. PIRILON. If lemons fall from the sky, make lemonade. Unknown. Nothing stronger than habit. Victor Hugo. You are the slave of what you say, and the master of what you keep. Unknown. |
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