[brainy]

As y'all know, bipolar has mania. And at times I get manic. Well my bf is holding it against me. He calls my mania "going to the moon." So he told me last night that "the next time you go to the moon, I'm not speaking to you. You'll never hear from me again."

It just happens that one night, while on the phone I asked if he feels comfortable talking with me, deep stuff and he said "no." The reason he gave was "I don't know if you'll go to the moon."

So feeling hurt over that, I decided to tell him I have bipolar disorder. I explained it to him, etc. I asked him how he feels about it and he was fine. He said "I feel for you. But we're all sick, have something wrong with us. But nothing changed, we'll still talk, and see each other" (we're long distance). I was elated!

The next day however, he called and it was like he set a bomb to my world. He said we're not compatible, he met someone else, etc. Of course I was sooo hurt. He then said the above words of "the next time you go to the moon, I'm not speaking to you. You'll never hear from me again."

Help!

[JustJace2u]

I am so sorry to hear this, especially during the holidays

[~Christina]

I'm sorry this guy is a assshole.

You truly deserve better. Dump him and move on.

((( hugs )))

This guy is a piece of work and probably very ignorant. You could try to educate him but why bother when the world is full of more understanding and validating people. I am so very sorry that happened....it must really hurt and sting your very core. (((Hugs)))

[ComfortablyNumb5]

Looks like he's pretty manipulative and does use your MI against you which is never ok. And he callled and said he met someone else?! Uhhh yea, buh-bye buddy! ✌️

[bizi]

YOu don't need this piece of work in your life.
you deserve to be treated well.
bizi

[Wander]

I am in total agree with the above posts. This piece of work does not deserve you and you are on infinite worth and can do so much better than him. Think of it as a weight lifted off you. It must hurt deeply and be such a shock to hear those words but you are much better off alone than with someone like him. Take a breathe, grieve, release and move on. Your life will be so much better soon.

[bioChE]

For what it's worth, someone doesn't meet someone like that overnight. He's had her far longer than he lets on, behind your back.

[MtnTime2896]

A guy who can't own up to his decisions without blaming it on something or someone, has no right to even be considered a man. Sounds like p **** to me.
He doesn't deserve you. He deserves a used tampon at best.

[xRavenx]

You definitely don't need all that extra stress and pain in your life. He's clearly a toxic person. For those of us with BP, we need someone who is going to lift us up and show support; not people who trigger us further, insult us, and place pressure on ourselves to be someone who we are not. Having others who are supportive and accepting is really what we need. Forget this guy. He's not worth your time or your health.