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#1
Dec 17, 2016, 11:39 AM
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I'm iverdrawn in my back account again. I can't stop crying. I don't have the money to fix it. I'm going to have to borrow from ymsister again. I hate myself. I'm stupid when it comes to finances.
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 Anonymous45023, Icare dixit, Nammu, Yours_Truly
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Dec 17, 2016, 11:50 AM
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I'm sorry that happened. Money sucks, well the need to have it sucks, i have been working a lot on this "money complex" as t calls it, it's crazy-making. Even after losing our home and going through bankruptcy 4 years ago and knowing i survived that & even own a home again, i still struggle with money issues.
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#3
Dec 17, 2016, 11:51 AM
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And you are not stupid! Please be gentle with yourself.
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Dec 17, 2016, 11:51 AM
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I'm sorry. Unfortunately I've been there myself and it does suck.
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#5
Dec 17, 2016, 12:09 PM
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My sister fixed it. I now owe her $60 :'(
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Dec 17, 2016, 12:11 PM
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I can usually hide my emotions from my family but I've been crying today. I think it shocked my sister and brother in law.
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#7
Dec 17, 2016, 12:19 PM
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Quote:
 maybe you shouldn't try to hide. Crying is a normal human reaction to stress, anger, sadness, or whatever. I'd be willing to bet that your sister and brother in law have cried too.
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 Eat a live frog for breakfast every morning and nothing worse can happen to you that day! "Ask yourself whether the dream of heaven and greatness should be left waiting for us in our graves - or whether it should be ours here and now and on this earth.” Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged Bipolar type 2 rapid cycling DX 2013 - Seroquel 100 Celexa 20 mg Xanax .5 mg prn Modafanil 100 mg 
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#8
Dec 17, 2016, 12:23 PM
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She just thanked me for telling her
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#9
Dec 17, 2016, 12:25 PM
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Hall I've been struggling almost every paycheck I was getting overdrawn. It was tough and did add to my emotional pitfall but I think I fixed it. Since summer I've been struggling.
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#10
Dec 17, 2016, 12:36 PM
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The overdraft fees are ridiculous, back when I was having trouble with this I went to the bank and asked that they drop some of them for it is a form of usury to charge so high a fee for a few dollars overdraft. Banks will pay the largest bill first even if that is the last one, that way they can count each small overdraft as a seperate fee. They usually dropped the fees and all I owed was my overdraft amount.
I hope this makes sense. You are not stupid banks are leaches.
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#11
Dec 17, 2016, 12:45 PM
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The fee is $30 plus $5 every day after 5 days
Of being iverdrawn.
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#12
Dec 17, 2016, 01:00 PM
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You might be able to get the bank to drop the fees if you've not recently asked them to do it. Once mine went negative with 2 purchases $3-4 each and they charged me $35 for each. So $70! On less than $10 negative! I got the $70 dropped just by asking.
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#13
Dec 17, 2016, 01:03 PM
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I had to ask a few
Months ago So...
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#14
Dec 17, 2016, 01:11 PM
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You're ok. Maybe go to a class or go to the library and get a book on managing money.
I'm glad your sister understands. A bad earthquake destroyed our home and we had to borrow $160,000. House is still not completely fixed up and we still owe almost all the money after 9 years of payments and my bunch of ips. It's just not worth it to beat ourselves up about. It wasn't my fault Please try to have confidence in yourself.
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Dec 17, 2016, 01:31 PM
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I'm trying but not working. I'm a little relieved but I feel so stressed lately. Probably why I've been hallucinating.
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#16
Dec 17, 2016, 01:41 PM
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Does your Theripist teach you any relaxation techniques?
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Bipolar 1Day Vraylar 3 mg. Wellbutrin 150 Night meds Temazepam 30 mg or lorazepam Hasn't helped yet. From sunny California! |
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#17
Dec 17, 2016, 02:23 PM
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Yes. I'm babysitting so in busy. Now I've got cookies in the oven. Gingerbread.
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#18
Dec 17, 2016, 02:44 PM
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I love gingerbread cookies. I'm baking spritz cookies and pizzelles
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Dec 17, 2016, 04:26 PM
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I'm eating my emotions... These
Cookies Rock
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Dec 17, 2016, 04:41 PM
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Yay cookies!
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#21
Dec 17, 2016, 05:33 PM
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I'm using my sisters Netflix account to watch
A White Chritsmas!
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#22
Dec 17, 2016, 05:45 PM
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Quote:
"Snow snow snow snow snow!"
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Qui Cantat Bis Orat - He who sings prays twice Ingrezza 80 mg Propranolol 40 mg Benztropine 1 mg Vraylar 4.5 mg Gabapentin 600 mg Klonopin 1 mg 2x daily |
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#23
Dec 17, 2016, 06:34 PM
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