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Aug 23, 2007, 08:41 PM
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not feeling my self feeling tired and frustrated. hubby has been working alot and i worry is he realy working or am i paranoid . part of my problem exagerated. been sleeping alot during the day. actually spent time with him today. well i feel the winds of change comming toward my family kids growing up wondering if we are growing apart. i don't want that. he's a guy so he does as good as can be expected to tell me how he feels.-onyx
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Aug 23, 2007, 10:26 PM
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I totally understand how you feel....my husband spends most of his time working to take care of us...he spends a lot of the rest of his time worrying about how he is gonna take care of us....I worry about him because I am afraid of the stress he is under.
I don't know what I would do without him...who would take care of me? My boys are growing so quickly...my oldest is 20 and going off in the world to experience his own life...My middle son will be 18 soon...not sure what he is gonna do....my youngest son is 14 and can't wait to be old enough to go off to college. What would I do without them.....will they still come to me for their needs and to talk? I am not sure that we are as close as I once thought... BTW...my husband doesn't like to talk to me about the way he feels...I get a bit here and there...mostly he worries about what kind of stupid thing I will do...I hate knowing that he worries about me like that... I have been sleeping more myself...came in from work today and went to bed...then hubby came home and laid down on the couch and I laid down with him and went back to sleep. I don't want to get up in the mornings anymore...I just want to sleep... Will see the pdoc in 2 weeks...maybe my T was right and my meds need to be tweeked...I just don't know anymore. here for you if you need someone to talk to....
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Aug 24, 2007, 08:36 AM
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thank you it makes sense. hope you have a good visit with your pdoc. mine told me to stay out of bed somuch. so know how you feel. thanks again-onyx
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Aug 24, 2007, 10:09 AM
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Men are usually not the best communicators.On many occassions Ive worried about the distance between my husband and I, but in time things always settle down enough for us to talk.
When the kids get older and become more independant the house quiets and we wonder what the future hold for the marriage.......its so different without the kids,I at least built a marraiage on the family concept....its hard to switch gears. Change is weird and unfamiliar.....we all go through it though.All the best. Have a good day Onyx |
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