[earthangel1]

My grandma sends 1000 a month to my mom to help me out, but my mom has been keeping 200-300 a month for herself. I'm so angry at my mom, but my grandma hasn't been able to find a third party to take care of my money as I have spending problems. My mom pays my rent, car insurance, and phone with the money and then doesn't send me the rest. She keeps it for herself. I'm soooo stressed out about this. Who could I find to manage the money? My grandma won't just send me the checks every month. And my mom keeps lying to my grandma about how much she gives me. Is there any way I can find a third party to manage the money. My grandma says she's too old to it herself, so I need to find a third party fast, as I am in debt. Any thoughts or suggestions?

Can you have your grandma send your mom, for example, $800 and send you (separately) the remaining $200? Or will your Mom not pay your rent etc without making a profit? It sounds like your grandma might think she's too old to pay your bills for you, which means your Mom will have to do it for now unless you go the 3rd party route.

[venusss]

Or maybe you can arrange that your bills are payed automatically from your grandmothers account and then you get sent the remainding money???

[Hairball]

I know many people that have "payees" think u could maybe call a social worker in your area and find out who u could talk to.

Your grandma could send her the money and then she will take care of everything for you.

[gayleggg]

There are financial managers but they charge to do it. I would check around to see what rates they charge and what all they will take care of.