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Old Sep 24, 2017, 07:45 AM
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feeling really depressed.

today is my nan's 95th birthday, and all of my family are out celebrating at a chinese place (they were allowed to take her out the nursing home for the day)

and i'm... not their

because my family don't want me their

I tried to phone the nursing home earlier to wish her a happy birthday, but was told in no polite way I had no right calling.

she has dimentia and I cann't even be with her.
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Old Sep 24, 2017, 08:08 AM
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Sorry that they won't let you see here
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Old Sep 24, 2017, 10:28 AM
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I am so sorry you have to deal with this.
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Old Sep 24, 2017, 11:49 AM
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I'm so sorry they're acting that way.
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Old Sep 24, 2017, 12:39 PM
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(((((( shattered sanity ))))))

I am sorry you are feeling left out.

Could you send her a card, perhaps?

My heart goes out to you.

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Old Sep 24, 2017, 02:55 PM
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I am so sorry you have to deal with this.


I'm sure it won't be the last time either.

my family are so ****ing toxic
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Old Sep 25, 2017, 06:26 AM
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So very sorry to hear about your situation. You've helped me realize that I can feel grateful for those in my family who, even though they don't want to deal with it, at least have the decency to sweep my issue under the rug.
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Old Sep 25, 2017, 11:14 AM
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So very sorry to hear about your situation. You've helped me realize that I can feel grateful for those in my family who, even though they don't want to deal with it, at least have the decency to sweep my issue under the rug.


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Old Sep 25, 2017, 11:18 AM
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What about WC's suggestion of sending a nice card or some flowers? I'm sorry your family left you out. Maybe it was for the best if they are that toxic to you. I don't agree with them not letting you visit her on her 95th birthday. What do they think you're going to do? Sending big hugs.
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Old Sep 25, 2017, 04:37 PM
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I am so sorry that your shyt family wont allow you to take part
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