[Victoria'smom]

So my son was offered IOP. The teen one is run by my (former) T. His welbutrin was raised. He has thought about it and has said no because it interferes with his night that he hangs with friend and co-op. It's his choice until he harms himself. He see's his pdoc next month.

However currently I could attend IOP with my husband's schedule. We've been asked to step up to be co-directors of one of the co-ops. I don't know if I can handle that. If we decline the co-op closes in January. We're also doing virtual school with my nephew. So between myself, my son and my nephew we're very busy.

Now we got this letter saying my husband needs to do a work program. There's no way he can do this. I don't know how we'll proceed. If need be we will loose our EBT. My husband is calling tomorrow. I really don't want to go through my whole psych history when it's none of there business.

[Victoria'smom]

So we decided to go ahead and set the co-op up so there's less troubles and help more but we will not be co-directors. We just can't do that we're already drowning with my nephews schooling, my son's college, teaching at co-ops and dr. appointments. If our moods go out of wack we have to much to handle as is. It's not like I'm stable.

[Tryingtobehappy5]

Sounds like you found a good compromise for now. I hope it all works out and your whole family can settle into the routine.

[liveforsummer]

Originally Posted by Tryingtobehappy5

Sounds like you found a good compromise for now. I hope it all works out and your whole family can settle into the routine.

I hope so too!

[Victoria'smom]

Without us as co-directors the co-op will close and I feel really, really bad about it. I just have to remember that things aren't always well for us. It's hard I want to just say yeah we can take that on too but with schooling our nephew it's too much. We're not even christian so running a christian co-op is a bit weird as is. We have yet to tell the current director our decision.

[Wild Coyote]

It's very helpful, and healthy, to know your limits, setting boundaries, trying to keep your balance and protecting your family's welfare. Congrats on this!

WC