[boogiesmash]

So it speaks for itself I’m getting pretty anxious not having a girlfriend. I know I need to work on myself and I’m getting anxious that I’ll be alone for my birthday and holidays again. I really can’t deal with that.

[Sunflower123]

In this situation would it be helpful to say never say never but have back up in case? I believe there’s every possibility that you’ll have someone for the holidays and New Year’s but I really hope you’ll make contingent plans in case. I’m sending best wishes and good vibes your way.

[fishin fool]

Boogie I am not trying to be nosy but do you have any family to spend
the holidays with. Don't feel you need to answer if that is to personal a question.

[boogiesmash]

Back up case like what??

[Sunflower123]

Originally Posted by boogiesmash

Back up case like what??

I just meant contingent plans. Like a plan B. I usually spend Valentines and New Year’s alone and while the majority of the time I couldn’t care less, sometimes New Year’s bugs me so I make other plans so I don’t sit at home alone. I wish you well.

[~Christina]

Im telling you offer to help at a soup kitchen .. Most everyone involved voluntering is a good honest soul trying to make a difference.. You never know who you could met ... and there are people out there doing the same as you looking for someoneto share a life with.

Dont stay home, go out and involve yourself in life.